Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for Bereaved Grandparents

Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for Bereaved Grandparents

by Mary Lou Reed
Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for Bereaved Grandparents

Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for Bereaved Grandparents

by Mary Lou Reed

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Overview

"Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for Bereaved Grandparents" is a book about grandparents' dual sorrow when a grandchild dies. They cry for their lost grandchild and they also cry for the terrible grief they see their own child having to bear. The author, Mary Lou Reed, writes of her experiences when her beloved grandson, Alex, died. Through her personal story she touches the universal in all grandparents' grief.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780895032041
Publisher: Taylor & Francis
Publication date: 06/15/1999
Series: Death, Value and Meaning Series
Pages: 142
Product dimensions: 6.12(w) x 9.19(h) x (d)

Table of Contents

Chapter One
My Grandson’s Life and Death describes the joy felt from the birth and life of a beloved grandchild, and the agony of his illness and death at two-and-a-half years.

Chapter Two
Our Family’s Grief tells of the grief, confusion, anger and family’s struggle to continue functioning following a grandchild's death.

Chapter Three
My Search For Help documents the author’s frustration with the lack of applicable information for grandparents’ grief.

Chapter Four
The Grief Process summarizes theories of various authorities about grief and how relevant they are for parents and grandparents.

Chapter Five
Helping Myself presents information the author learned from experience, study, and correspondence with other grandparents.

Chapter Six
Helping Our Grieving Child suggests the needs of, and various methods of helping the grieving parent, child of the grandparent.

Chapter Seven
Sibling’s Grief and Needs discusses the multiple and diverse needs of, and how to help a family's surviving children.

Chapter Eight
In Memory: Memorials and Healing Rituals offers suggestions and examples of memorials and personal rituals.

Chapter Nine
How Others May Help/Hinder gives examples and ideas of how those surrounding a grieving family may assist or harm.

Chapter Ten
Finding My Way summarizes the author's travel through, learning from, and the outcome of her grief journey.

Epilogue

Appendix I: Selected Poems

Appendix II: Resources

Bibliography

Index

What People are Saying About This

Pamela Marcus

Received a 5 star rating from Doody Publishing Weekly Updates! "This book is written in a tender manner and is very personal. While reading this book I felt as though the writer was sitting in my living room telling me her story and how she was able to go on after the death of her grandson. It was easy to read and use some of the ideas in clinical practice. I have suggested this book to several professionals who routinely assist family members coping with the loss of a child. I was able to utilize this book by reading parts of it to a family who lost of their 20-month-old child in a freak accident. The family found this book closely matched some of their emotional experiences as they tried to cope with their loss.
RN, MSCS, Doody Publishing Weekly Updates, Doody.com

David E. Balk

Grandparents Cry Twice can assist grieving grandparents, their friends, and family or professionals who wish to understand the special dynamics of grandparent grief. The author tells her story and uses it to illustrate the dynamics of the helping and healing processes and illustrates the manner in which grandparent grief is different. The book would be an insightful and sensitive gift to give grandparents who have lost a grandchild. The friends and family of grieving grandparents can gain awareness of what to say and do to help their loved ones. Professionals who counsel or assist families can gain insight about the multiple losses that accompany the death of a child. Grief therapists can benefit from using this book as a tool for grandparents they may see in therapy. Students in the helping professions will gain understanding about diverse types of grief. All readers will be touched by the tender and insightful manner in which Reed shares her own grief experience to help others.
Death Studies, Volume 25

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