| Acknowledgments | xiii |
| Introduction: Why Should I Read This Book? | xv |
A | Attitudes and Approaches: What Choices Do I Have? | 1 |
B | Be Different: But Everybody Else Is Doing It | 7 |
C | Chastity: What Does It Have to Do With Me? | 12 |
D | Discovering the Unavoidable Consequences of Sex: What Could Really Go Wrong? | 19 |
E | Experiencing Real Love: Isn't Sex the Natural Expression of Love? | 27 |
F | Freedom: Nobody Is Going to Tell Me What to Do | 33 |
G | Great Sex: But I Want Sex to Be Passionate and Exciting | 40 |
H | Having It Your Way: Can't I Define the Meaning of Sex? | 47 |
I | If Not Sex, What Can I Do? How Far Is Too Far? | 54 |
J | Just My Thoughts: Why Do They Matter? | 62 |
K | Killing It Slowly: Can't We Just Use Contraception? | 66 |
L | Laying Aside a Myth: Doesn't Chastity Lead to Repression? | 74 |
M | Making a Distinction (Between Homosexual Orientation and Behavior): I Can't Help It; It's Just How I Am | 80 |
N | Nobody But Me: What's the Big Deal With Masturbation? | 87 |
O | Oral Sex: Is It Really Sex? | 92 |
P | Pornography: How Does Looking at Pictures Hurt Anyone? | 96 |
Q | Questioning the Church: What Do Celibate Men Know About Sex Anyway? | 100 |
R | Respect That Builds Self-Esteem: But I Like Attention | 106 |
S | Starting Over: What If I've Already Lost My Virginity? | 112 |
T | Trying to Undo the Past: How Can I Move Beyond the Memories? | 117 |
U | Under One Roof: What's Wrong With Cohabitation? | 123 |
V | Vocation of Marriage: With So Much Divorce, Is It Really Worth Waiting? | 128 |
W | What to Do: Chastity Sounds Nice, But Is It Practical and Realistic? | 133 |
X | XX: How Can Women Live Chastely? | 138 |
Y | YX: How Can Men Live Chastely? | 144 |
Z | Zero Regrets: The Decision Is Yours | 152 |
Appendix A | Where Else Can I Turn? | 157 |
Appendix B | What Can I Do to Have Fun and Show Affection Without Having Sex? | 165 |
| Notes | 169 |