Each and every relationship starts with knowledge of the self. Loneliness is a state of mind. As you maneuver through every relationship, the true purpose is the deeper discovery of who you are in the presence of your partner. There are truly 7 questions one must ponder before engaging in any relationship. Why are you feeling lonely? Do you trust yourself? What is your legacy? Am i attracting the compatible male? Do I feel Sexy? Are you growing spiritually emotionally and financially and finally are you having fun? These questions are designed not to "teach" you anything, but to help you investigate more about who you are through an analytically designed discovery process. Everything emanates from the knowledge that the origin of all love starts with the acknowledgement and acceptance of God. Through him, everything else falls in place from the marriage to the job to the struggle of everyday life. It is indeed possible to be in a relationship and feel totally lonely and also be "single" and experience total fulfillment. Truth be told, no one is capable of filling that void until there exists a shift in consciousness an unprecedented awareness of God's presence. He is the absolute truth.