9 Steps to Reversing or Preventing Cancer and Other Diseases: Learn to Heal Within
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| ISBN-13: | 9781564147493 |
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| Publisher: | Red Wheel/Weiser |
| Publication date: | 06/11/2004 |
| Pages: | 224 |
| Product dimensions: | 6.00(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.70(d) |
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CHAPTER 1
Using the Mind/Body Connection to Get to the Cause
"My sister had breast cancer nearly 10 years ago, and now she has been diagnosed with terminal bone cancer," Jack told me over the phone. "Angela's doctors said there is nothing they can do to help her — not even surgery or chemotherapy will stop the cancer."
I first met Jack at a United Nations conference in Istanbul, and we'd kept in touch over the years. I now offered to teach Angela my program of self-healing exercises. The next day, they both flew from Paris to meet with me.
Angela was pale as a ghost and hunched over. She couldn't walk without a cane. Her eyes bulged in terror. She was consumed with the fear of dying — and with another fear: Her 19-year-old daughter was very attached to her mother, and she'd told Angela she could not live without her.
While we worked through the Daily Healing Routine, Angela remembered a number of childhood experiences in which she'd felt abandoned, unwanted, and rejected by her parents. At 7, she was sent to boarding school when her parents divorced. She thought she'd been sent away because she did something wrong.
"I believed that I was stupid, ugly, and unlovable," Angela said. "The words, 'Get away from me, you are not wanted,' suddenly bubbled up from my memory. I remembered fearing my father — who hit me — and my stepmother — who criticized me. I learned to feel afraid of everybody I knew. I became invisible and quiet, as if I didn't exist. I was very timid, always trying to do and say the right thing so people wouldn't get angry with me. Since I was yelled at constantly, I decided that I was inferior, a failure. As these memories came up, I felt deep pain in my heart and spine.
"When I practiced the five-minute self-healing exercise, it felt so good to fill my pain with love. As I continued the exercises, I imagined myself talking to my inner self, and she slowly began to feel better. I saw her smiling, laughing, then dancing with joy and running out to play with her friends, feeling happy and having fun.
"I then realized that I was still feeling all these same negative emotions in my life now. As I became aware of that, an image of a wise older woman appeared in my mind. She was radiantly beautiful, shining with joy and health. Intuitively I knew that this was me in the future, looking youthful. I heard her say to me the same words I had said to the little girl. She showed me my future as exciting and fulfilling.
"I realized then that my cancer and my difficulties in life were covering up the real issue of being disconnected from my true essence of love and joy. I also realized that my feelings of shame and lack of self-love were destroying my body.
"As this new awareness settled in, a soft, gentle sensation of love bubbled up in my heart. I felt like I was coming home to my real self. I knew this love was what was going to heal me. For the first time I could smell the flowers in the room. I opened my eyes feeling elated, knowing that I will heal."
When Angela practiced the exercise, "creating bliss and finding your passion," an image appeared in her mind's eye of her enjoying time with her future grandchildren. She later wrote to me, "Within two days of practicing your method, my pain became a lot less severe, and I started walking without my cane. I totally forgot that I couldn't walk without it."
A neighbor of mine who met Angela on the elevator asked me, "What happened? She looked like death when I saw her two days ago. Now she is a new person, laughing and smiling, and her face is rosy and radiant. I find it hard to believe it's the same woman."
After they returned home, Angela's brother, who was an alcoholic and had attended some of our sessions, called to say, "Not only did my sister heal, I healed too. I am no longer experiencing emotional and mental pain. I have stopped drinking. I am very grateful."
A year later, Angela wrote, "The tumor on my ribcage has shrunk dramatically, and my doctors are telling me that I am no longer terminal; they can now operate on me. I refused their recommendation and continue working on my self-healing. I feel that your program saved my life. I am feeling great."
Angela later told me that she had continued to do the exercises, and now she is pain-free — physically as well as emotionally — and in good health. She joyfully told me that she was babysitting for her newly arrived first grandchild.
Two months later, Angela called to tell me that she went in for a checkup, and her blood test was normal. Her doctor told her she is in remission, and he doesn't need to see her for another six months. She was amazed that exactly five years ago the doctors had told her that she was terminal.
Unfortunately, few people have learned the self-healing techniques that saved Angela's life. One in every four deaths in America is from cancer, and half of all Americans living today, or more than 92 million people, will get cancer during their lifetime. Forty percent of those diagnosed with cancer this year will not be alive in five years. More children under age 15 die from cancer than any other disease. And the death rate continues to rise as cancer is predicted to soon replace heart disease as the number-one killer. In addition, millions are suffering from other diseases that limit or interrupt the quality of life.
Not only are the current treatments not working, they cost a small fortune, which threatens the financial security of families across the country. The National Cancer Institute estimates that cancer costs Americans $60 billion a year in medical bills. Looking at other diseases, such as heart disease, just one heart bypass operation can cost as much as $50,000. Sadly, many patients have had this procedure done three times.
What I have learned from mind/body medicine is that surgery and drugs only remove the symptoms of disease, not the cause. Unless the cause is healed, diseases such as heart disease and cancer will reoccur. Experience has shown me that our self-sabotaging attitudes are like poison to the body, weakening and eventually disabling our immune systems, creating disease. Changing these toxic attitudes to healing decisions enables the body to heal itself. Symptoms are messages from the body that our toxic attitudes are having a detrimental effect on the body.
My own triumph over cancer and my work with those who challenge disease all around the world have taught me that cancer and other diseases are the result of denying our inherent goodness and worthiness, and identifying with not being good or worthy enough. We then become filled with fear and doubt — rather than the love and joy of our true self — and the body begins to break down.
This book details the program that reversed my cancer and that has helped so many of my clients and workshop participants worldwide do the same. You will be shown how to find the psychological and spiritual blocks that stop the body's flow of life force, which ultimately cause disease, and you will be shown how to dissolve these blocks so the body can heal itself.
You will discover how you denied your needs when you made decisions against yourself. And you will be shown how to reconnect with your goodness and find your heart's bliss and passion for life that naturally bring you joy and healing. This program will show you how to heal yourself on all levels — physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Finally, you will be shown how to create a supportive healing environment that will reinforce your new healthy thinking and attitudes while you are healing.
Mind/Body Medicine and Psychoneuroimmunology
Because surgery and chemotherapy had not stopped my cancer from recurring, I knew I had to look elsewhere. On my journey back to health, I tried many different alternative therapies and visited many healers. Some were helpful up to a point, others did nothing for me, some were a waste of time and money, some made me worse, and some endangered my health. I tried special diets, detoxing my body, and even saw a Shaman. But none of these things worked for me. I couldn't bear eating unsatisfying food for the rest of my life. Enjoying tasty food has always been a source of pleasure that I didn't want to give up. What did appeal to me was the emerging field of mind/body medicine. As a psychologist, I understood how the mind affects the body.
In 1984 I founded and directed the Biofeedback, Psychology, and Stress Management Center in Livingston, N.J. I had a large private practice and helped thousands of people solve a variety of problems from emotional to physical disorders. I became known for my expertise in reversing psychosomatic disorders using Gestalt therapy, biofeedback and self hypnosis. The beneficial combination of these modalities led me to develop a program that helped alleviate many physiological disorders, such as hypertension, ulcers, arthritis, rheumatism, headaches, and back pain. All kinds of aches and pains were successfully treated. I also dealt with anxiety, depression, phobias, relationship problems, and other psychological disorders on a daily basis. This combination of modalities was helpful in all the cases I dealt with.
My research into biofeedback showed me how the mind affects the body. In addition, numerous validated research findings confirmed the ability to reverse physiological disorders with the mind. I understood that there is a physiological response in every cell of the body to every thought we think.
When cancer appeared in my life, I started exploring the possibility that the mind/body connection theories would also apply to cancer. I studied extensively, researching articles and participating in many programs and seminars. I first learned about the field of scientific research called psychoneuroimmunology, or PNI, from O. Carl Simonton, M.D., a pioneer in mind/body medicine, when I attended his five-day seminar in Los Angeles.
Broken down into its parts, psychoneuroimmunology means thoughts (psycho) affect the nervous system (neuro) and then affect the immune system (immunology). Dr. Simonton introduced validated research findings that showed how negative thoughts, which produce emotional stress (in our nervous system), affect our immune systems.
The Getting Well Audio Program Guidebook by Simonton states on page 17: "The immune system — the body's natural defense — is designed to contain or destroy any cancerous cells, which current medical thinking suggests we all have in our bodies from time to time. Suppression of the immune system, however, can result in cancerous growth. Emotional stress ... produces a suppression of the immune system, which leaves the body susceptible to the development of cancer."
Creating an Environment for Disease to Grow
Because our bodies have the innate ability to heal and repair from the effects of stress, injury, and disease, what creates the environment for disease to develop? PNI research indicates that the thoughts, attitudes, beliefs, and images we hold in our mind affect our emotions and our nervous and immune systems. Our emotional and mental states have the potential to weaken or activate the immune system against disease.
The Getting Well Audio Program Guidebook continues on page 8:
"The important point here is that something is happening in the person who contracts the cancer to create susceptibility. ... What lapse in the body's defenses allows these cells to reproduce into a life-threatening tumor at this time? What inhibits the body's immune system from performing the function that it has performed successfully for many years?
"The answers to these questions bring us back to emotional and mental factors in health and illness. The same factors that may determine why one patient lives and another with the identical diagnosis and treatment dies also influence why one person contracts a disease and another does not."
For example, PNI research shows that everyone who smokes doesn't get cancer. The Getting Well Audio Program Guidebook states:
"... when exposed to known cancer-producing substances, most people still remain healthy ... if all it took to get cancer was exposure to nicotine and tars, then all heavy smokers would contract the disease. Yet most heavy smokers do not get lung cancer. [italics added by author]
"... there are substantially different incidence rates for cancer among patients with different kinds of mental and emotional problems. These clues point to significant connections between emotional states and illness."
What Toxic Attitudes Do to the Body
The latest research in PNI shows that our negative thoughts and emotions slowly destroy our immune system until disease occurs. These negative thoughts and emotions solidify into attitudes that are toxic to the body and make us sick. Strong sarcastic, skeptical, pessimistic attitudes create energy blockages that stop the flow of vital life-force energy (hormones, chemicals, and nutrients that are usually carried to all parts of the body) depleting the immune system until disease starts. If these destructive attitudes are not changed, the discomfort grows and the sickness gets worse, eventually killing us.
From my experience working with cancer and other disease patients all over the world using the program presented in Part II of this book, I have determined that it is our psychological and spiritual blocks that prevent us from radiant health. Having also studied numerous ancient healing traditions for more than 30 years, I have learned that psychological issues that have not been resolved create internal tension. That tension blocks the flow of the life-force in the body/mind systems. These blockages are the reason for the diseases that develop in the physical body.
Dr. Margo de Kooker, a medical doctor specializing in the field of behavioral medicine, states in "An Overview of Psychoneuroimmunology," her January 1999 article for Rennaissance Magazine:
"What the field of PNI tells us is that every part of our immune system is connected to the brain in some way. ... The immune system ... is sensitive to ... the chemicals secreted in the brain in response to our mental-emotional processing (moods and feelings).
"PNI research helps us understand the interactions between mental and emotional states, immune system functioning, and ultimately health. In healthcare today we have passed from the surgical revolution through the chemical revolution and have entered into the behavioral revolution. [Italics added by author]
"In the real world, what the field of PNI proves is that what happens in our minds at the level of our perception (and our emotional reaction to that perception) can have real effects on our immune systems. This concept is not new at all, and ancient wisdom has always encouraged us to focus on maintaining a 'healthy' mind in order to maintain a healthy body. It is only now that we are able to prove and understand the connections.
"... lingering unresolved emotions and inflexible ways of coping can become the source of chronic low-grade stress, which can undermine immune system functioning. ... Given the right genetics, a weakened physical condition, or an existing illness, and you may be sitting on a time bomb."
My experience is that unresolved emotions and toxic attitudes create an internal conflict, which puts an incredible stress on the systems of the body and results in the breakdown of the immune system. Harmful or unresolved emotion can take many forms. For example, every time we worry, doubt, fear, lack, hate, judge, or resent someone or something, it literally stops the body's natural healing and rejuvenation process. First, the adrenals become stressed, then the nervous system, and finally the hormones. This continual interruption of the rhythm of the body's natural healing process — like a stop and start activity — creates a war within the body. The body starts to break down and attack itself. And the process known as disease begins.
Unresolved emotions are the result of emotional experiences from the past that you are holding onto and have never released. For example, remember the times in your life you felt betrayed, abused, taken advantage of, treated unfairly, cheated, lied to, talked about negatively, made fun of (especially in childhood), treated disrespectfully, picked on, made to feel inferior or worthless, criticized, or hurt in other ways.
These emotions are stored in the body until you have an emotional tornado lurking inside, unexpressed and repressed. And eventually they begin destroying you inside. You don't know it until you start feeling physical discomfort, such as headaches, back pain, and other aches and pains. If you don't pay attention and find ways to release the emotional blockage, the symptoms intensify and are first diagnosed as hypertension, ulcers, migraines, and the like.
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Table of Contents
Foreword by Jack Canfield,
Introduction by O. Carl Simonton, M.D.,
PART I: FINDING THE CAUSE OF CANCER AND OTHER DISEASES,
Chapter 1: Using the Mind/Body Connection to Get to the Cause,
Chapter 2: Learning From My Journey With Cancer,
Chapter 3: Seeing Your Symptoms as Feedback,
PART II: THE 9 STEPS PROGRAM TO REVERSE OR PREVENT CANCER AND OTHER DISEASES,
Chapter 4: Step One: Making a Decision to Be Well,
Chapter 5: Step Two: Healing Your Emotional Pain,
Chapter 6: Step Three: Healing Your Toxic Attitudes,
Chapter 7: Step Four: Practicing the Daily Healing Routine,
Chapter 8: Step Five: Calling on the Doctor Within,
Chapter 9: Step Six: Using Your Doubt to Create Certainty,
Chapter 10: Step Seven: Using Spiritual Energy to Enhance Your Healing,
Chapter 11: Step Eight: Following Your Heart's Bliss and Living With Passion,
Chapter 12: Step Nine: Creating a Healing Environment to Reverse or Prevent Disease,
Chapter 13: Final Words of Encouragement,
The 9 Steps,
Appendix: Changing Toxic Attitudes to Healing Decisions,
Resources Directory,
Ask Your Questions and Share Your Success Stories,
Index,
About the Author,