A Lover's Discourse

A Lover's Discourse

by Xiaolu Guo

Narrated by Cindy Kay

Unabridged — 5 hours, 25 minutes

A Lover's Discourse

A Lover's Discourse

by Xiaolu Guo

Narrated by Cindy Kay

Unabridged — 5 hours, 25 minutes

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Overview

"I don't believe in love at first sight."



I was taken aback. I thought we were definitely in love at first sight.



"What do you mean? Wasn't it clear the moment you picked the elderflowers by the park and we looked at each other? Or was it in that book club?"



You gave me a damp smile, as if my confusion proved that you were right.



A Chinese woman moves from Beijing to London for a doctoral program-and to begin a new life-just as the Brexit campaign reaches a fever pitch. Isolated and lonely in a Britain increasingly hostile to foreigners, she meets a landscape architect and the two begin to build a life together.



A Lover's Discourse is an exploration of romantic love told through fragments of conversations between the two lovers. Playing with language and the cultural differences that her narrator encounters as she settles into life in post-Brexit vote Britain, the lovers must navigate their differences and their romance, whether on their unmoored houseboat or in a cramped and stifling apartment in east London. Suffused with a wonderful sense of humor, this intimate and tender novel asks what it means to make a home and a family in a new land.

Editorial Reviews

Publishers Weekly

08/24/2020

Guo’s poignant if uneven meditation on belonging, language, and the nature of love (after the NBCC Award-winning memoir Nine Continents) takes the form of a series of fragmentary scenes and ruminations addressed by a woman to her husband. The unnamed narrator, an art historian, leaves China for London in 2015 to work on her doctoral thesis about Chinese reproductions of classic Western artworks. After a few months, she meets the man who will become her husband at a book club. As the years pass, she struggles with language barriers and cultural differences amid growing hostility toward foreigners as the Brexit campaign heats up, and with the couple’s difficult relationship, including an unexpected pregnancy. Through analysis of texts by Walter Benjamin, Roland Barthes, and Marguerite Duras, the narrator explores her own identity and desire to build a family (“What did Barthes know about love?” she asks, reflecting on a text that shares the novel’s title). The husband’s and wife’s opposing natures clash more than they attract: she needs crowds and the vibrant life of her own culture; he prefers the quiet solitude of life on a canal boat and is inattentive to domestic responsibilities. While discussion of the narrator’s PhD work is fascinating, the tidy ending feels discordant with her lingering questions. Though elegantly written, this love story fails to convince. Agent: Rebecca Carter, Janklow & Nesbit. (Oct.)

From the Publisher

PRAISE FOR A LOVER’S DISCOURSE

“Unlike Roland Barthes’ book by the same name, Xiaolu Guo’s A Lover’s Discourse is a love story as a genuine dialogue, not only between lovers, but between languages, cultures, and philosophies. Swift, astute, and funny, the novel explores large and urgent questions about the familiar and the alien, the original and the copy, and the blur between and metamorphoses from one to the other. The narrative magic lies in the fact that the although the tale flies high, it never leaves the ground of the everyday, the particular, sometimes messy, reality of the book’s ‘me’ and ‘you’—two travelers who struggle to make a home somewhere between them.”—Siri Hustvedt, author of Memories of the Future

“A fiercely intelligent book whose exploration of the philosophy of identity is trenchant and moving.”—Kirkus Reviews, starred review

PRAISE FOR XIAOLU GUO

“The novels confirmed Guo, who is also a film-maker, as an astute and challenging innovator, slipping between word and image, documentary and fiction, as restlessly as between languages.”—Guardian on A Concise Chinese-English Dictionary for Lovers

“Xiaolu Guo’s literary voice remains a breath of the freshest air imaginable.”—The Independent (UK) on A Concise Chinese-English Dictionary for Lovers

“Gripping. . . In evocative, captivating prose that reads like fiction, Guo brings to life her lifelong struggles against the chains of poverty, gender, and censorship . . . A rich and insightful coming-of-age story of not only a woman, but of an artist and the country in which she was born.”—Kirkus Reviews on Nine Continents

“A memoir to compare with Wild Swans for a new generation . . . Utterly compelling . . . The book is often shocking in its descriptions of violence and deprivation, but Guo also writes with wry humour . . . She writes superbly about her struggle to escape the constraints of gender, poverty and state interference. This extraordinary memoir will enhance her burgeoning reputation.”—Ian Critchley, Sunday Times (UK) on Nine Continents

Library Journal

09/01/2020

Noted British writer/filmmaker Guo (I Am China) follows up the memoir Nine Continents with a novel documenting the relationship between an unnamed couple. In London during the initial period of Brexit, a newly arrived Chinese scholarship student working on her dissertation about artists in China who can produce counterfeit artwork in three days for about $50 meets an Australian German man, a landscape architect, at a book group. The two soon become lovers and move in together. What follows is a flowing work, narrated by the woman, that details their three years together through a series of their conversations. What adds to the work's realism is the depiction of the young woman having to struggle to communicate her thoughts owing to her inability to fully comprehend British English metaphors while also translating sayings from Chinese to English. VERDICT This beautifully told and gently introspective story of a young couple touches upon a host of relatable topics, from cultural and generational differences to socioeconomical perceptions and relationship issues between genders. Readers will have much to ponder, and book groups especially will appreciate.—Shirley Quan, Orange Cty. P.L., Santa Ana, CA

Kirkus Reviews

★ 2020-07-14
Two lovers merge their lives, but not their identities, across boundaries of culture, nationality, and ideology.

The unnamed narrator of this novel in epistolary fragments is a young woman from a rural town in Southern China who has come to London to pursue a Ph.D. in visual anthropology in the winter of 2015, just prior to the Brexit referendum. Both her parents have recently died, and she doesn't know whether to attribute her loneliness to her identity as a foreigner in Britain, to her newly orphaned status, or to another more essential part of her nature she comes to understand as “distance pain, an ache or a lust for a place where you want to belong.” Her desolation is somewhat ameliorated when she meets the you to whom these fragments are addressed—a landscape architect she meets picking elderflowers on a picnic organized by mutual friends. “The elderflower picker,” as she terms him, turns out to be another culturally displaced person, the child of an Englishwoman and a German man who grew up on the east coast of Australia before moving to Germany in his late teens and to England as an adult. Their relationship quickly develops from this chance meeting to a full-blown love affair, co-habitation on a houseboat in the London canals, parenthood, and travel to German farmland, Australian tourist towns, and an enclave of tradesmen in Southern China whose job is to reproduce great works of art for sale on the open market. Modeled after Roland Barthes' structuralist masterpiece, also titled A Lover’s Discourse, Guo’s latest meditation on the nature of belonging asks many of the same questions as her earlier works—Can language create identity? Can love create a home? Are the differences between cultures, genders, nationalities, and personal ideologies what pull us apart, or are lifelong conversations, even arguments, about these things what help us understand what it means to truly be together?

A fiercely intelligent book whose exploration of the philosophy of identity is trenchant and moving.

Product Details

BN ID: 2940176234299
Publisher: HighBridge Company
Publication date: 10/06/2020
Edition description: Unabridged
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