01/11/2016
Nicolaou, hoping to learn what the faithful know and discover the positive aspects of religion without focusing on one single faith, makes her way through the tenets of Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, and Islam. Over four years, she creates her own spiritual blueprint, an assemblage of different practices and shared sentiments without fidelity to any one worldview or ethos. Admittedly nonacademic in nature, the book presents Nicolaou’s unassuming narrative of theological explorations across the faiths. It is a journey of appreciation and understanding and ends up feeling like an experiential course in religious literacy. Believers will take interest in Nicolaou’s account of the “un-churched” or “un-mosqued” who come to places of worship, as she explains what catches their interest, compels them, or pushes them away. The nonreligious will appreciate Nicolaou’s frankness concerning critical questions about the four religions and discussions of the differences that divide them. At times, the understanding of religious beliefs, practices, and material elements is unrefined, but this is not the story of an academic researcher or a devoted practitioner. Perfect for those looking to ground themselves in the overlapping but often contradictory morals of the world’s major religions, Nicolaou’s book vividly and respectfully unpacks the nature of spiritual practice. (Apr.)
Nicolaou's writing is full of intelligence, curiosity, and honesty. In her quest for spiritual identity, she touches on one of our deepest desires: to live a life of meaning and connection in a world that too often feels radicalized and divided. A None's Story is more than a memoir: it is an exploratory map that we might follow to better understand our own journeys toward an understanding of faith, its failures, and its rewards.
A None's Story packages sociology and history into an engaging personal story that puts a human face on the fast-growing movement of the 'nones' in American religious life. Nicolaou's spiritual peregrinations are presented in ways that are informative and also frankly fun.
Nicolaou's quest to find inner peace through in-depth participation in Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, and Islam is not only informative in a remarkably even-handed and clear-headed way, but also compelling, inspiring, insightful, moving, and often funny.
Corinna Nicolaou has taken up a journey that, as a None, thrilled me in its scope and intention. With humor, humility, and grace, she reveals the threads of history and humanity that connect us all.
Beautifully, humorously, and respectfully recounted, Nicolaou's journey is proof of the good that can be found in and learned from those who neither look nor believe like us.
2016-01-02
An unbeliever embarks on an ambitious personal journey to sample the top four world religions, emerging more connected and less anxious. "None" is a selection in a survey asking for one's religious affiliation ("no religion") and is not to be confused with "atheist." Indeed, Pacific Northwest journalist Nicolaou points out in this sprightly personal search, the majority of "nones," the fastest growing category among religious affiliations, believe in God and that churchgoing is beneficial to society. The disconnect often occurs due to political aversions—namely, that the ultrareligious are viewed by left-leaners as "hypocritical, judgmental, or insincere." So what is a none to do? Having been raised by lapsed Christian parents and now married to a man whose family is only nominally Jewish, Nicolaou resolved to visit places of worship employed by the top four religions in cities where she has lived: Dallas, where she grew up; Los Angeles and Berkeley, where she went to high school and college, respectively; Washington, D.C., where she once worked in government; and her current small hometown in the Pacific Northwest. For each religion she resolved to better understand, she first did her homework—reading the Gospels or Quran, for example—before attending prayer groups and services. She tried to blend in while seeking mentors among the congregants, and she sampled variations of each religion—e.g., Catholic, Quaker, or Pentecostal Christianity, or Pure Land versus Zen Buddhism. Often, the author was dazzled by the ritualistic trappings of the prayers (as in Islam) and the parade of curious personalities, such as the solicitous church ladies, the kindly rabbi who informed her that "we don't write on the Sabbath" or the radiant dharma instructor in Berkeley who embodied the lesson of staying in the present. In the end, the adventure was necessarily only a beginning, with a deeper exploration still ahead. A somewhat superficial but illuminating journey in search of community and social justice.
Sincere, idiosyncratic.... [Nicolaou's] determination to understand practice rather than ideology is wise.
Nicolaou puts flesh and blood on one of the most important trends in religious America: the rise of the 'nones,' people who claim no religious affiliation yet aren't atheists either. From mosque to church to synagogue to Zen temple, she approaches her quest with a keen eye and a big heart—as well as a welcome dash of humor. A None's Story is a book everyone will enjoy.
Beautifully, humorously, and respectfully recounted, Nicolaou's journey is proof of the good that can be found in and learned from those who neither look nor believe like us.