09/15/2016 Using the story of the Benson family to trace changing cultural attitudes toward sexuality, self-expression, and religion between 1850 and 1940, the transition from the Victorian era to the modern, Goldhill (Greek, Univ. of Cambridge; Love, Sex & Tragedy) examines the political, cultural, and literary concepts of self-identity and self-awareness. The Bensons were celebrities in their day but have since passed into relative obscurity. Patriarch Edward White (1829–1896), archbishop of Canterbury, had six children with wife Minnie Sidgwick, all of whom were public personalities in their own right. Daughter Maggie was the first published female Egyptologist. Others became activists, politicians, novelists, and teachers. Yet this clan carried secrets that first began with the unorthodox courtship and marriage of the parents. Prolific writers, the Bensons used diaries, letters, novels, and autobiographies to make sense of lesbianism, homosexuality, homoerotic attractions, unorthodox living arrangements, and teacher-pupil sexual attractions at a time when the vocabulary to describe these yearnings and relationships didn't yet exist. As Goldhill explains, this was a family "that wrote itself." VERDICT This is not a traditional biography; it's more appropriately a family saga or Freudian case history. An engrossing yet dense and scholarly read.—Marie M. Mullaney, Caldwell Coll., NJ
"Goldhill showcases the emotional landscape and complex processes of the written self-fashionings of a prominent family that was, at once, quintessentially Victorian and highly unconventional. . . .Goldhill's beautifully written book represents a major accomplishment chock full of wonderful insights about the transition to modernity."
"What makes this family so queer is not just their unconventional sexuality, but 'how that sexuality is accommodated, denied, negotiated within the tramlines of a very conventional life.' . . . The Bensons turn out to be paradoxically both exemplary and unique in their queerness: therein lies the significance of Goldhill's thoughtful and engaging book."
Goldhill is . . . especially good on the linguistic side of the story. Until the invention of psychiatry and sexology, there simply was not a language to discuss this sort of thing. . . . This book makes you realize how much has changed.
Times Literary Supplement
"This brilliant book is recommended Christmas reading for scholars, educated general readers, and, above all, bishops."
This bold, erudite, and highly original book takes as its principal subject the vast literary output of an extraordinary Victorian familythat of Archbishop Edward W. Benson and his wife and children, almost all of whom published extensively. Goldhill makes a series of brilliant forays into Victorian discussions of sex and sexuality, of religious belief and doubt, and of topics as engaging and complexly shaded as ‘discretion’ and ‘indiscretion.’ A Very Queer Family Indeed is, all told, a remarkable achievementone that is both beautifully written and compulsively readable.
"Rather than writing the Bensons' lives as linear biographies, Goldhill has structured his book in four parts that offer a range of surprising and often quite contradictory views of his subjects through the lens of their own writings. . . . As a result, Goldhill's book turns out to be a relentlessly intimate portrait. Informed by the latest research in life writing, queer theory and Victorian culture, Goldhill has managed to write the rare book that appeals to scholarly readers as well as a wider audience."
Child brides, cousin marriage, generational antagonisms, polyamory, lesbianism, homosexuality, all served with heavy dollops of graphomania and religious fervorwhat could be more Victorian? As this magnificent account of the Benson family in the years between 1850 and 1940 shows, for the Victorians, nothing was more normalor more agonizingthan queerness. Sensitive to historical context and literary form, Goldhill combines empathy with self-awareness to tell a beautifully researched story that will instruct and delight any reader interested in the history of sexuality.
It is not often that page turner accurately describes academic histories of Victorian grandees. But, unlike most monographs, Simon Goldhill’s A Very Queer Family Indeed begins with a kiss between Minnie Sidgwick and Edward White Benson after Benson had proposed marriage. The subsequent marriage laid the foundation of what Goldhill calls 'a very queer family indeed.' Despite achieving high positions in late-Victorian and Edwardian institutional life, the Bensons remained in, but not of, conventional life. This liminal position enables Goldhill to trace developments in writing, understandings of sexuality, and religion between 1840 and 1940.”
Anglican and Episcopal History
Reveling in late Victorian life writing, Goldhill reveals a family of graphomaniacs that wrote and rewrote itself, across generations, genders, and genres. In dramatic detail, he probes the ‘biographical urges’ of the Bensons as well as our own desires for narrative and narratives of desire. A wonderfully queer book indeed!
"Child brides, cousin marriage, generational antagonisms, polyamory, lesbianism, homosexuality, all served with heavy dollops of graphomania and religious fervor--what could be more Victorian? As this magnificent account of the Benson family in the years between 1850 and 1940 shows, for the Victorians, nothing was more normal--or more agonizing--than queerness. Sensitive to historical context and literary form, Goldhill combines empathy with self-awareness to tell a beautifully researched story that will instruct and delight any reader interested in the history of sexuality."--Sharon Marcus, author of Between Women: Friendship, Desire, and Marriage in Victorian England "Goldhill is . . . especially good on the linguistic side of the story. Until the invention of psychiatry and sexology, there simply was not a language to discuss this sort of thing. . . . This book makes you realize how much has changed."-- "Times Literary Supplement" "Goldhill showcases the emotional landscape and complex processes of the written self-fashionings of a prominent family that was, at once, quintessentially Victorian and highly unconventional. . . .Goldhill's beautifully written book represents a major accomplishment chock full of wonderful insights about the transition to modernity."-- "Victorian Studies" "It is not often that page turner accurately describes academic histories of Victorian grandees. But, unlike most monographs, Simon Goldhill's A Very Queer Family Indeed begins with a kiss between Minnie Sidgwick and Edward White Benson after Benson had proposed marriage. The subsequent marriage laid the foundation of what Goldhill calls 'a very queer family indeed.' Despite achieving high positions in late-Victorian and Edwardian institutional life, the Bensons remained in, but not of, conventional life. This liminal position enables Goldhill to trace developments in writing, understandings of sexuality, and religion between 1840 and 1940." -- "Anglican and Episcopal History" "Rather than writing the Bensons' lives as linear biographies, Goldhill has structured his book in four parts that offer a range of surprising and often quite contradictory views of his subjects through the lens of their own writings. . . . As a result, Goldhill's book turns out to be a relentlessly intimate portrait. Informed by the latest research in life writing, queer theory and Victorian culture, Goldhill has managed to write the rare book that appeals to scholarly readers as well as a wider audience."-- "Anglistik" "This bold, erudite, and highly original book takes as its principal subject the vast literary output of an extraordinary Victorian family--that of Archbishop Edward W. Benson and his wife and children, almost all of whom published extensively. Goldhill makes a series of brilliant forays into Victorian discussions of sex and sexuality, of religious belief and doubt, and of topics as engaging and complexly shaded as 'discretion' and 'indiscretion.' A Very Queer Family Indeed is, all told, a remarkable achievement--one that is both beautifully written and compulsively readable."--Christopher Lane, author of The Age of Doubt: Tracing the Roots of Our Religious Uncertainty "This brilliant book is recommended Christmas reading for scholars, educated general readers, and, above all, bishops."-- "Church Times" "What makes this family so queer is not just their unconventional sexuality, but 'how that sexuality is accommodated, denied, negotiated within the tramlines of a very conventional life.' . . . The Bensons turn out to be paradoxically both exemplary and unique in their queerness: therein lies the significance of Goldhill's thoughtful and engaging book."-- "Times Higher Education" "Reveling in late Victorian life writing, Goldhill reveals a family of graphomaniacs that wrote and rewrote itself, across generations, genders, and genres. In dramatic detail, he probes the 'biographical urges' of the Bensons as well as our own desires for narrative and narratives of desire. A wonderfully queer book indeed!"--Yopie Prins, author of Victorian Sappho