Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

It is the precise moment in which we concede our transience that life and love become most cherished.

Lois and Les had been married 64 years, still crazy-in-love, when they found themselves in a sudden transition from the category of active-old to old-old. This remarkable story of their next five years describes their ongoing effort to maintain their lifelong egalitarian love affair as they cope with health changes.

"Hjelmstad, in her lyrical prose and poetry, gives us a rare--sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, but always realistic--view of life from the parallel universe of the old-old. This is a story we rarely hear. It is a book for all of us, and a must for health care professionals with older clients."

- Anne Mahoney, PhD, Professor Emeritus in Sociology, University of Denver, author of Couples, Gender, and Power: Creating Change in Intimate Relationships

"This beautifully written love story inspires couples to renew their commitment to living fuller live together."

- Connie Shoemaker, author of The Good Daughter: Secrets, Life Stories, and Healing

"Growing old. It is something we all do. Some do it with more grace and good humor than others. Few are as elegant as Lois and Les."

- Fred Silverman, NY Producer

It is the precise moment in which we concede our transience that life and love become most cherished.

Lois and Les had been married 64 years, still crazy-in-love, when they found themselves in a sudden transition from the category of active-old to old-old. This remarkable story of their next five years describes their ongoing effort to maintain their lifelong egalitarian love affair as they cope with health changes.

"Hjelmstad, in her lyrical prose and poetry, gives us a rare--sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, but always realistic--view of life from the parallel universe of the old-old. This is a story we rarely hear. It is a book for all of us, and a must for health care professionals with older clients."

- Anne Mahoney, PhD, Professor Emeritus in Sociology, University of Denver, author of Couples, Gender, and Power: Creating Change in Intimate Relationships

"This beautifully written love story inspires couples to renew their commitment to living fuller live together."

- Connie Shoemaker, author of The Good Daughter: Secrets, Life Stories, and Healing

"Growing old. It is something we all do. Some do it with more grace and good humor than others. Few are as elegant as Lois and Les."

- Fred Silverman, NY Producer

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Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

It is the precise moment in which we concede our transience that life and love become most cherished.

Lois and Les had been married 64 years, still crazy-in-love, when they found themselves in a sudden transition from the category of active-old to old-old. This remarkable story of their next five years describes their ongoing effort to maintain their lifelong egalitarian love affair as they cope with health changes.

"Hjelmstad, in her lyrical prose and poetry, gives us a rare--sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, but always realistic--view of life from the parallel universe of the old-old. This is a story we rarely hear. It is a book for all of us, and a must for health care professionals with older clients."

- Anne Mahoney, PhD, Professor Emeritus in Sociology, University of Denver, author of Couples, Gender, and Power: Creating Change in Intimate Relationships

"This beautifully written love story inspires couples to renew their commitment to living fuller live together."

- Connie Shoemaker, author of The Good Daughter: Secrets, Life Stories, and Healing

"Growing old. It is something we all do. Some do it with more grace and good humor than others. Few are as elegant as Lois and Les."

- Fred Silverman, NY Producer

It is the precise moment in which we concede our transience that life and love become most cherished.

Lois and Les had been married 64 years, still crazy-in-love, when they found themselves in a sudden transition from the category of active-old to old-old. This remarkable story of their next five years describes their ongoing effort to maintain their lifelong egalitarian love affair as they cope with health changes.

"Hjelmstad, in her lyrical prose and poetry, gives us a rare--sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, but always realistic--view of life from the parallel universe of the old-old. This is a story we rarely hear. It is a book for all of us, and a must for health care professionals with older clients."

- Anne Mahoney, PhD, Professor Emeritus in Sociology, University of Denver, author of Couples, Gender, and Power: Creating Change in Intimate Relationships

"This beautifully written love story inspires couples to renew their commitment to living fuller live together."

- Connie Shoemaker, author of The Good Daughter: Secrets, Life Stories, and Healing

"Growing old. It is something we all do. Some do it with more grace and good humor than others. Few are as elegant as Lois and Les."

- Fred Silverman, NY Producer

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Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

by Lois Tschetter Hjelmstad
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It is the precise moment in which we concede our transience that life and love become most cherished.

Lois and Les had been married 64 years, still crazy-in-love, when they found themselves in a sudden transition from the category of active-old to old-old. This remarkable story of their next five years describes their ongoing effort to maintain their lifelong egalitarian love affair as they cope with health changes.

"Hjelmstad, in her lyrical prose and poetry, gives us a rare--sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, but always realistic--view of life from the parallel universe of the old-old. This is a story we rarely hear. It is a book for all of us, and a must for health care professionals with older clients."

- Anne Mahoney, PhD, Professor Emeritus in Sociology, University of Denver, author of Couples, Gender, and Power: Creating Change in Intimate Relationships

"This beautifully written love story inspires couples to renew their commitment to living fuller live together."

- Connie Shoemaker, author of The Good Daughter: Secrets, Life Stories, and Healing

"Growing old. It is something we all do. Some do it with more grace and good humor than others. Few are as elegant as Lois and Les."

- Fred Silverman, NY Producer

It is the precise moment in which we concede our transience that life and love become most cherished.

Lois and Les had been married 64 years, still crazy-in-love, when they found themselves in a sudden transition from the category of active-old to old-old. This remarkable story of their next five years describes their ongoing effort to maintain their lifelong egalitarian love affair as they cope with health changes.

"Hjelmstad, in her lyrical prose and poetry, gives us a rare--sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, but always realistic--view of life from the parallel universe of the old-old. This is a story we rarely hear. It is a book for all of us, and a must for health care professionals with older clients."

- Anne Mahoney, PhD, Professor Emeritus in Sociology, University of Denver, author of Couples, Gender, and Power: Creating Change in Intimate Relationships

"This beautifully written love story inspires couples to renew their commitment to living fuller live together."

- Connie Shoemaker, author of The Good Daughter: Secrets, Life Stories, and Healing

"Growing old. It is something we all do. Some do it with more grace and good humor than others. Few are as elegant as Lois and Les."

- Fred Silverman, NY Producer


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780963713902
Publisher: Mulberry Hill Press
Publication date: 11/12/2018
Pages: 182
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.42(d)

Table of Contents

Contents

Foreword

Year 2008 – The Winds of Time

Sixty Years and Counting…



Year 2012 – Ninetieth Birthday

We’re Almost Home

Waiting for the Other Shoe

Year 2013 – No Lifeguard on Duty

Countdown

A Night to Remember

Not Quite So Fast!

Father’s Day

Unsteady

The New Car

Find Joy

Our Walk

Oktoberfest

Five Percent or So

Christmas 2013

Year 2014 – Going, Going…

Another Chink in the Armor

Be My Valentine

To Drive or Not to Drive

Grounded

Shopping Trip

Waterfall

Bucket List Revisited

By the Time We Get to Phoenix

Back to Normal

Parallel Universe

Two Golden Peaches

Maybe We Have It Wrong

Year 2015 - The Yard

Systems Fail

Beauty All Around

Meltdown

Priceless

Harbor

In-valid

First Kiss Remembered

OK. OK. We Looked.

Cleanliness Is Next to Godliness

The Leaves Turned

The Age of Old-Old

A Foreign Land

In the Bleak Midwinter

Year 2016 - Let Them Nibble

Happy New Year

Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep

Old Times

Of Course, I Had My Shot

Four more chapters in 2016 plus Year 2017 with five chapters)

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