Table of Contents
Foreword ix
Introduction 1
Part 1 Why We Do the Things We Do
Chapter 1 The Four Universal Principles That Shape Your Life 21
Chapter 2 Triggers, Templates, and Truths 43
Chapter 3 Voids, Wounds, and the Gold within the Heart 63
Chapter 4 The 16 Common Behavior Styles 83
Chapter 5 Spotting Behavior Patterns and Connecting the Dots 111
Part 11 Shifting Above the Line
Chapter 6 Trade Up! How to Resist Being Pulled Below the Line 135
Chapter 7 Know Who I Am-Authentic and Transforming 159
Chapter 8 Know Where I'm Going-Reliable and Achieving 181
Chapter 9 Connecting with Others-Relating and Encouraging 195
Chapter 10 Growing with Others-Developing and Compassionate 215
Chapter 11 Building Above the Line Work Culture 239
Conclusion Living Above the Line 265
Acknowledgments 275
Appendix 279
Notes 281
Index 283