Clearing the Path: On Death, Loss, and Grief
Clearing the Path is a collection of clinical stories that illustrate practical, applicable communication tools for professionals in work with end-of-life patients and families. These vignettes from practice demonstrate how impending death, death itself, and the loss of a relationship affect the lives and grief of both patients and survivors.

Written 13 years after its companion volume The Weeping Willow, the book brings even more complex encounters and nuanced emotions from additional years of experience in the field. The stories are woven in with the counseling process, thought process, and dilemmas of the counselor. Each story is then followed by "Notes to the Practitioner" with clear, practical and professional advice on navigating various communication issues and end with "Conclusions" which are short summaries of each vignette's teachings. At the end of each chapter the reader will find recent, annotated references for those who wish to read more about the topic. Chapters provide new, in-depth tools for dealing with death, grief, and loss from both the griever and the counselor or medical professional's perspective. What is unique to this book is the insight into the authentic human emotions experienced by both counselors and clients in these encounters with dying and grieving, making it useful for both the caregivers and the recipients of end-of-life care.

Acknowledging that communication is individual and dependent on all the involved parties, these stories were selected to demonstrate many ways of communication through a range of situations, as well as the various attitudes, harmful and helpful, revealed in responses from people surrounding the patient or griever. Clearing the Path is not a conventional "how- to" book and it aims instead to teach by example from the hands-on counseling experiences of two experts who have worked in the field of field of death and dying, grieving and loss with responsibility and care. For professionals at all levels of experience those looking to navigate the difficulties of end-of-life care, this is the perfect guide.
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Clearing the Path: On Death, Loss, and Grief
Clearing the Path is a collection of clinical stories that illustrate practical, applicable communication tools for professionals in work with end-of-life patients and families. These vignettes from practice demonstrate how impending death, death itself, and the loss of a relationship affect the lives and grief of both patients and survivors.

Written 13 years after its companion volume The Weeping Willow, the book brings even more complex encounters and nuanced emotions from additional years of experience in the field. The stories are woven in with the counseling process, thought process, and dilemmas of the counselor. Each story is then followed by "Notes to the Practitioner" with clear, practical and professional advice on navigating various communication issues and end with "Conclusions" which are short summaries of each vignette's teachings. At the end of each chapter the reader will find recent, annotated references for those who wish to read more about the topic. Chapters provide new, in-depth tools for dealing with death, grief, and loss from both the griever and the counselor or medical professional's perspective. What is unique to this book is the insight into the authentic human emotions experienced by both counselors and clients in these encounters with dying and grieving, making it useful for both the caregivers and the recipients of end-of-life care.

Acknowledging that communication is individual and dependent on all the involved parties, these stories were selected to demonstrate many ways of communication through a range of situations, as well as the various attitudes, harmful and helpful, revealed in responses from people surrounding the patient or griever. Clearing the Path is not a conventional "how- to" book and it aims instead to teach by example from the hands-on counseling experiences of two experts who have worked in the field of field of death and dying, grieving and loss with responsibility and care. For professionals at all levels of experience those looking to navigate the difficulties of end-of-life care, this is the perfect guide.
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Clearing the Path: On Death, Loss, and Grief

Clearing the Path: On Death, Loss, and Grief

by Lynne Dale Halamish, Eric Cassell
Clearing the Path: On Death, Loss, and Grief
Clearing the Path: On Death, Loss, and Grief

Clearing the Path: On Death, Loss, and Grief

by Lynne Dale Halamish, Eric Cassell

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Overview

Clearing the Path is a collection of clinical stories that illustrate practical, applicable communication tools for professionals in work with end-of-life patients and families. These vignettes from practice demonstrate how impending death, death itself, and the loss of a relationship affect the lives and grief of both patients and survivors.

Written 13 years after its companion volume The Weeping Willow, the book brings even more complex encounters and nuanced emotions from additional years of experience in the field. The stories are woven in with the counseling process, thought process, and dilemmas of the counselor. Each story is then followed by "Notes to the Practitioner" with clear, practical and professional advice on navigating various communication issues and end with "Conclusions" which are short summaries of each vignette's teachings. At the end of each chapter the reader will find recent, annotated references for those who wish to read more about the topic. Chapters provide new, in-depth tools for dealing with death, grief, and loss from both the griever and the counselor or medical professional's perspective. What is unique to this book is the insight into the authentic human emotions experienced by both counselors and clients in these encounters with dying and grieving, making it useful for both the caregivers and the recipients of end-of-life care.

Acknowledging that communication is individual and dependent on all the involved parties, these stories were selected to demonstrate many ways of communication through a range of situations, as well as the various attitudes, harmful and helpful, revealed in responses from people surrounding the patient or griever. Clearing the Path is not a conventional "how- to" book and it aims instead to teach by example from the hands-on counseling experiences of two experts who have worked in the field of field of death and dying, grieving and loss with responsibility and care. For professionals at all levels of experience those looking to navigate the difficulties of end-of-life care, this is the perfect guide.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780197636879
Publisher: Oxford University Press
Publication date: 05/03/2022
Pages: 200
Product dimensions: 8.90(w) x 5.90(h) x 0.60(d)

About the Author

Lynne Halamish is a Thanatologist (M.A., C.T.), an expert in death and dying, loss and grieving. She is a counsellor for grieving and dying people, and a teacher, lecturing and providing workshops, locally and internationally, to professionals in the health field, psychosocial field, educational field, and to groups of grievers. In hospitals, medical and nursing schools, professional conferences, high schools, army bases, and community settings. She also provides supervision to experts in the field. Member of the Kappy and Eric Flanders National Palliative Care Resource Centre of Ben Gurion University of the Negev, Israel.

Table of Contents

Preface ix

Acknowledgments xiii

Grief Map xv

I Preparing for Death

1 Living Eulogy: Giving the Patient Maximum Control 3

2 No-Man's Land: Last-Wishes Dilemma 11

3 Ready When You Are: Preparing for Death 15

4 The Phoenix: Dealing with Recurring Illness and Remissions 20

5 It Takes a Village: Where Culture Defines Us 24

6 Legacy: Choosing What to Leave Behind 28

7 Last Respects: Communication with Patient and Family 32

II Preparing Children for a Death

8 Plan B: Using Teachable Moments with Children 39

9 Denial: Blessing the Children Before You Go 42

10 Carpet Talk: Talking to Small Children about a Dying Classmate 47

11 Last Lullaby: Saying Goodbye to Young Children 54

III Unexpected Death and Associated Concerns

12 Haunted: Finding Meaning in a Meaningless Death 61

IV Funeral-Related Concerns

13 The Big Event: Children and Family Funerals 69

14 It's My Party: Allowing Someone to Speak 74

V After Death: Bereavement-Related Concerns

15 Clearing the Path: Holding on by Letting Go 81

16 Refresh: Neutralizing Destructive Memorials 85

17 Hand-Me-Down Death: Blessing and Cursing 90

18 The Taj Mahal: Choosing to Leave Your Ghosts Behind 96

19 Renovation: Refraining the Narrative 101

VI Communication-Related Concerns

20 Quicksand: The Trap in Your Past 111

21 The Petrified Woman: Making Assumptions 115

22 The Silent Woman: Messages That Go Unheard 120

VII Other Topics and Concerns

23 The Cornerman: Defining Your Work 127

24 The Ripple Effect: Who Will Leave Next? 130

25 Senicide: Suicide Contagion 135

26 The Threat: How Do You Know It's Real? 140

27 Dancing on Blood: The Side Effects of Transplants 144

28 Basil: Recovering or Reinventing the Self 147

29 The Stuff of Dreams: Finding the Meaning 154

30 Surviving Death: The End of Grief 159

Appendix A The Toolbox 165

Appendix B Looking for the End of Grief 169

Afterword 175

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