Table of Contents
Author's Note ix
Introduction: Life After Death 1
Part I Death Changes Everything
Chapter 1 My Death Benefit (Autobiography) 11
Chapter 2 Death Benefits: The Last Taboo 49
Chapter 3 Going Through the Stuff: Choosing a Legacy 63
Part II Life Benefits: Body, Mind, and Spirit
Chapter 4 Using the Good China: Deserving a Life at Last 81
Chapter 5 My Body, Myself: Health and Beauty Benefits 91
Chapter 6 Till Death Do Us Part: Marriage and Divorce 103
Chapter 7 Lifted Up in My Mother's Arms: Religious Epiphanies 119
Chapter 8 A Voice of My Own: Creative Self-Expression 131
Part III Orphans' Benefits: Seeing Parents with New Eyes
Chapter 9 Father Knows Best? The Punitive Parent Dies 145
Chapter 10 Mom's Best Friend: The End of Emotional Caretaking 157
Part IV In Morte Veritas: The Insights Death Brings
Chapter 11 The Eleventh Hour: Near-Death Revelations 171
Chapter 12 Perspectives from the Deathspace 183
Chapter 13 In Their End Is My Beginning: Cultivating Death Benefits 205
Acknowledgments 217
Notes 219
Index 221