Table of Contents
Introduction: The New Map to Love 1
How to Speed Your Path to Love 7
Stage 1 Discover Your Unique Core Gifts 17
1 Your Gift Zone: The Birthplace of Intimacy 19
2 Your Core Gifts: A Key to Finding Your Beloved - and Yourself 37
3 How to Love Yourself First 61
Stage 2 Recognize Which Attractions Lead to Love and Which Lead to Pain 79
4 Attractions of Inspiration and Attractions of Deprivation: The Most Important Distinction of All 81
5 How Your Attractions Reveal Your Core Gifts 105
6 Tapping Your Deepest Roots: How Five Minutes a Day Can Change Your Life 121
Stage 3 Learn the Skills of Deeper Dating 133
7 The Seven Skills of Deeper Dating: How to Lead with Your Gifts 135
8 A Deeper Dating Guide to Finding Love: Where to Look-And What to Do When You Get There 151
9 Taming the Great Saboteurs of New Love 169
10 How to Find the Light in the Middle of the Tunnel 183
Stage 4 Cultivate Lasting Love 201
11 Cultivating Sexual and Romantic Attraction to People Who Are Good for You: Your Sexual Core Gifts 203
12 Being Loved into Fullness 227
Afterword: Beyond Deeper Dating 233
Acknowledgments 237
Deeper Dating Resources 241
Notes 244
Index 249
About the Author 256