Publishers Weekly
03/13/2023
Singer-songwriter Williams flexes her linguistic chops in her soulful debut memoir. She begins with her tumultuous Deep South childhood that nonetheless offered bright spots: “Yes, my family was dysfunctional, fucked up. But that’s not what really matters to me. What matters is that I inherited my musical talent from my mother and my writing ability from my father.” Her teenage years were shaped by obsessive guitar playing, a love for Chilean composer Violeta Parra, and full-blown worship of Bob Dylan. Williams chased her musical dreams into early adulthood, playing gigs in Jackson, Miss., before signing her first record contract in 1978. Throughout her career, Williams cycled through romances, tours, and struggles with mental illness and professional insecurity. Describing her decision to skip the 1994 Grammys after winning the award for Best Country Song, the musician is forthright: “The truth is that I was not just self-conscious but also scared. I feared that I didn’t belong. It’s a feeling I’ve been trying to shake my entire life.” Raw and honest, this must-read account soars on the back of Williams’s hard-won wisdom about making art and overcoming struggle. Fans and non-fans will be rapt. Agent: David McCormick, McCormick Literary. (Apr.)
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[Lucinda] Williams’s memoir is as flinty, earthy and plain-spoken as her songs. . . . [It] shows how deep [her] grit runs.”—The New York Times
“The often hilarious, occasionally harrowing Don’t Tell Anybody the Secrets I Told You is a bracingly candid chronicle of a sui generis character plotting a ramshackle but ultimately triumphant trajectory. . . . Williams leaves few stones unturned.”—The Wall Street Journal
“Remarkable . . . Reading like it was written on a series of cocktail napkins in the absolutely best way, this ever-quotable memoir of a born songsmith has something to offer nearly any grownup who has listened to music for the last half-century.”—Booklist
“Honest and raw, this book serves a slice of an inspiring life that reminds readers to keep trying.”—Library Journal
“Revealing . . . a poignant, plainspoken life story from a dedicated musician.”—Kirkus Reviews
“Raw and honest, this must-read account soars on the back of [Lucinda] Williams’s hard-won wisdom about making art and overcoming struggle. Fans and non-fans will be rapt.”—Publishers Weekly
Library Journal
03/17/2023
In a conversational style, Grammy Award winner Williams takes readers through the ups and downs of her family life and musical career. She weaves a narrative that feels relatable and extraordinary. Having inherited her musical talent from her mother and her way with words from her father, Williams considers how her childhood and family shaped her music and life. When the author was a child (she was born in 1953 in Louisiana), her mother was diagnosed with manic depression with paranoid schizophrenic tendencies, which left Williams and her two siblings in the care of their poet father, a professor at the University of Arkansas who read a poem at Bill Clinton's second presidential inauguration. The author ponders her long journey toward achieving her dream in her forties, decades after being stuck in the hard-to-sell category between country and rock. Williams tells her story candidly, sharing the inspiration for her songs along with the trials and tribulations that made her the artist she is today. The book includes a chronology of the many places where the author lived from childhood through the 2020s. VERDICT Honest and raw, this book serves a slice of an inspiring life that reminds readers to keep trying. Williams's story will likely appeal to readers interested in music, poetry, literature, or mental health.—Gricel Dominguez
Kirkus Reviews
2023-02-16
The veteran singer/songwriter captures the essence of her life and career.
In this revealing memoir, Williams (b. 1953) writes that her Southern “childhood informs so many of my songs.” Her mother struggled with mental illness and alcoholism; her father was a poet and “a struggling itinerant professor moving around and working at various colleges.” Family provided her a “progressive streak,” and her music “borrows from southern gothic elements and blues and folk and rock.” At 12, Williams got her first guitar and started playing from songbooks. In the late 1960s, her parents divorced; Jordan, one of her father’s former students, became her stepmother. As a teenager, living in Chile and Mexico “made an imprint on me that lingers still today.” Her move to Austin in 1974 “started to liberate me from a lot of that southern Christian guilt and hippie bullshit that was very exclusive and limiting.” The author fondly recalls her friendship with the young Arkansas poet Frank Stanford, who committed suicide in 1978, the same year she signed her first record contract, with Folkways. She had a “vision” for her music but had to wait for it to happen “well into my forties.” In the mid-1980s, Williams lived in Los Angeles, performing in many clubs and opening shows for other bands. After starting her own group, a “British punk label” gave her a “chance to make a commercial record.” The author chronicles the many highs and lows of dealing with record labels and recording sessions. As she gained notoriety, she wanted to try new things. In 1998, her fifth album, Car Wheels on a Gravel Road, won a Grammy. Her 2001 follow-up, Essence, “would be all about the groove.” The author writes candidly about dealing with emotional problems and OCD, and she shares personal stories about many of her songs.
A poignant, plainspoken life story from a dedicated musician.