Table of Contents
Introduction: What Is the Happiness GAP? xi
Part I The Happiness Gap 21-Day Programme
Days 1-5: Laying the Foundations 3
P - Bring your awareness to the present 5
A - Accept what you cannot control 8
G - What was good about today? 9
Days 6-10: Putting the Happiness GAP into Action 13
G - Who are you thankful for? 13
A - Can you accept other people? 15
P - Meditate in chunks 19
Days 11-15: Bridging the Happiness GAP 27
G - Be openly grateful to someone 28
A - What's blocking your emotional river? 31
P - Become 'super-mindful' 34
Days 16-21: Bringing It All Together 43
G - What are you grateful for in yourself? 44
A - Put acceptance into action 48
P - Have a flow experience 54
Part II Filling the Happiness Gap for Life
Introducing Lifelong GAPiness 71
Lifelong Gratitude 83
Don't save it for the funeral 84
Enough now means more tomorrow 91
Be thankful for life's crap 92
Have a moment of introspection 95
Lifelong Acceptance 99
The two levels of lifelong acceptance 99
Perfectionism vs 'good enough' 108
Success = happiness vs happiness = success 114
Lifelong Living in the Present 121
Tuning in to your deeper self 121
The Universal Mind 124
Lifelong meditation 128
Lifelong flow 133
Q&A: flow experiences 134
Balancing present joy and future excitement 140
Are you on the present road or the future road? 141
Applying the Happiness GAP to Your Relationships 157
Better relationships = more happiness 158
G - What are you grateful for in those close to you? 159
A - Accepting others the way they are 166
P - Be mindfully present with others 181
Applying the Happiness GAP to Your Body and Mind 193
Managing your mind-body-happiness levels 194
G - What do you have to be grateful for in your body? 196
A - Can you accept your body and health? 200
P - Are you with your meals? 206
Conclusion: Some Final Words from Your Coach 217
About the Author 227