It's My Way or the Highway: Turning Bossy into Flexible and Assertive

by Julia Cook, Kyle Merriman (Illustrator)

Overview

Cora June is B-O-S-S-Y!

And her bossiness is getting in the way of her success.

She points out her teacher's boring assignments.
She dictates the games people play at recess.
She even objects to family dinners.

If Cora June doesn't get her way, she can make life miserable for those around her. Will anyone put the brakes on her outlandish demands? And will Cora June ever realize that she can be a leader, but still be flexible?

With help, Cora June learns that there is a difference between being assertive and being bossy. See what additional lessons are learned in this eye-opening tale about the benefits of not always getting your way. This is the first title in an exciting storybook series, The Leader I’ll Be! book series which includes:

• It's My Way or the Highway

– Cora June learns to be assertive and flexible without being bossy.

The "I" in Integrity

– Can Cora June do the right thing…even when no one is looking?

Good Things Come to Those Who Wait

- In a world consumed by instant gratification, can Cora June stay calm and patient?

The Great Compromise

- Cora June sees that future leaders must learn to compromise and show they are willing to listen to others.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781944882372
Publisher:	Boys Town Press
Publication date:	02/20/2019
Series:	The Leader I'll be! , #1
Edition description:	First Edition, Illustrated
Pages:	31
Sales rank:	243,422
Product dimensions:	8.80(w) x 8.60(h) x 0.30(d)
Age Range:	5 - 10 Years

About the Author

Julia Cook, a former school counselor and teacher, has written many books on behavior and health for children. Julia has the innate ability to enter the worldview of a child through storybooks, giving parents and educators the “what to say” and “how to say it to kids.” Her ultimate goal is to make a positive difference in the lives of children, parents and educators by teaching lifelong problem-solving skills to kids.

KYLE MERRIMAN is a professional illustrator and concept artist with experience designing various games, books, and animated short films. He earned his BFA in Illustration from Brigham Young University, and currently resides with his wife in Orem, UT.

Editorial Reviews

I bought this for my 5 y/o daughter to help with her "bossy" attitude, mostly while at school. It really helps describe the difference between being bossy and being assertive. I like very much that it encourages to go for the things that you want but, teaches the power of flexibility and makes sure to include other's feelings as well instead of swapping bossiness for being a pushover. Great for encouraging your strong girls! - Sarah, Verified Purchaser

This book really hit home for my bossy and sweet 4-year-old. We are now working on being more flexible and we have a signal if she starts to be bossy that helps her remember to take a step back and listen to other’s wants/needs. - Christopher F., Verified Purchaser

"I was scheduled to substitute teach the day after receiving this book in the mail. In a conversation with the teacher the night before, she asked if I had any new books to read to the children. I suggested this one and she thought it was perfect - especially for one of her students. We read the book and followed it up with a couple of exercises that the children loved. It really helped the children in the class understand that being flexible in their thinking is important and leads to better relationships." - Eva Goulette

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