Table of Contents
Acknowledgments xiii
Preface Pamela Anderson xv
Preface Rabbi Shmuley Boteach xxi
Part 1 Have We Forgotten How to Make Love?
Chapter 1 The Art of Intimacy 3
Chapter 2 Our Deep Need 10
Chapter 3 A Sexual Famine 18
Chapter 4 Failure of the Sexual Revolution 25
Chapter 5 Is Porn for Losers? 38
Chapter 6 Loosening Sexual Tension 48
Part 2 What Happened to Erotic Love?
Chapter 7 Too Much of a Good Thing 59
Chapter 8 Becoming Sexual Experts 72
Chapter 9 Goal-Oriented Sex 79
Chapter 10 Eating Ourselves to Death 85
Part 3 The Feminine Erotic Mind
Chapter 11 Captured by Desire 93
Chapter 12 Erotic Fantasy 108
Chapter 13 Passionate Connectedness 113
Chapter 14 Give a Woman What She Wants 120
Part 4 The Masculine Erotic Mind
Chapter 15 Needing To Be Needed 129
Chapter 16 Masculine Duality 138
Chapter 17 Loss of Feminine Love 148
Chapter 18 Cheating: It's Not All About Sex 157
Part 5 Pillars of Eroticism
Chapter 19 Unavailability 171
Chapter 20 Mystery 186
Chapter 21 Forbiddenness 195
Chapter 22 Vertical Discovery 207
Part 6 Putting Passion into Practice
Learning to Make Love 223
Building Connection 227
Being Jealous 230
Channeling Your Femininity 232
Channeling Your Masculinity 236
Parents Are Still Lovers 240
Practicing Passionate Connectedness 244
Conclusion 251
Endnotes 253
Index 263
About the Authors 273