Table of Contents
Introduction ix
Section 1 The Real Work: Why Positivity is the Solution
Chapter 1 Sunshine, Rainbows, and Kittens: Exploding the Myths of Positivity 3
Chapter 2 Waiting for Happiness: The Insanity of Inaction 17
Chapter 3 The Rise of the Solutionists: The Power of Keeping it R.E.A.L. 28
Section 2 The Foundation: Relentless Respect
Chapter 4 Reclaiming Your Edge: The Lie That You've Been Told (and Believed) 43
Chapter 5 Connecting to Your "Hire" Self: Choosing Self-Accountability 58
Chapter 6 Number One: Relentlessly Respecting Ourselves 68
Section 3 The Lifeblood: Endless Energy
Chapter 7 The Fight You Must Win: Developing an Unstoppable Attitude 87
Chapter 8 Yes, You're here to Make Friends: Building Relationships That Last 104
Chapter 9 A Starving World: The Power of Appreciation 116
Section 4 The Courage: Addressing the ABCs of Workplace Negativity
Chapter 10 Dealing with the ABCs of Workplace Negativity: ABC #1: Asshats 129
Chapter 11 Dealing with the ABCs of Workplace Negativity: ABC #2: Bullies 144
Chapter 12 Dealing with the ABCs of Workplace Negativity: ABC #3: Complainers 158
Section 5 The Spirit: Lasting Leadership
Chapter 13 You're Already in Charge: Leading without Authority 169
Chapter 14 Invisible no More: Valuing Everyone 180
Chapter 15 Death Before Life: Becoming a Leader Who Will Change the World 190
Section 6 A New Reality: The Road Ahead
Chapter 16 When Keeping it R.E.A.L. Goes Wrong: Knowing When to Quit 201
Chapter 17 Positivity Forever: The End of the Beginning 210
Conclusion 217
Notes 219
Acknowledgments 221
About the Author 225
Discussion Guide 227
Index 231