Marriage and the Family in the Middle Ages

by Frances Gies

Overview

Historians have only recently awakened to the importance of the family, the basic social unit throughout human history. This book traces the development of marriage and the family from the Middle Ages to the early modern era. It describes how the Roman and barbarian cultural streams merged under the influence of the Christian church to forge new concepts, customs, laws, and practices. Century by century it follows the development -- sometimes gradual, at other times revolutionary -- of significant elements in the history of the family

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780060914684
Publisher:	HarperCollins Publishers
Publication date:	01/23/1989
Series:	Harper Perennial
Edition description:	Reprint
Pages:	384
Product dimensions:	5.31(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.86(d)

About the Author

Frances (1915–2013) and Joseph (1916–2006) Gies were the world’s bestselling historians of medieval Europe. Together and separately, they wrote more than twenty books, which col-lectively have sold more than a million copies. They lived in Michigan.

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Chapter One

Why Condole?

Condole: To express sympathy or sorrow; I condoled with himin his loss.
— American Heritage Dictionary

I'm So Sorry

You read it in the newspaper or the telephone rings; the loved one of a friend has died. Among the thoughts that cross your mind are the desire to help in some way, to respond to your friend's sorrow and pain. The wish to condole is such a human trait, yet most of us are at a loss to acknowledge, in a caring and loving way, the grief of others. That's understandable. No one has ever taught us the art of condolence. And when we try to draw from our own experiences of loss, we find that those who have tried to condole us, friends and relations with the best of intentions, have frequently said or done exactly the wrong thing.

We want to comfort, to condole, but we don't know what to write, what to say, o r what to do. Days fade into each other and the call never seems to be made; that letter just never seems to get written. Sound familiar?

What is it about our confrontation with another's anguish that causes a tightness in our chest, a constriction in our throat, the primal urge, tempered only by social form, to run? What causes the words to slip away when we are faced with another's grief? Is it overwhelming compassion, or is it the reflection of our own mortality mirrored in another's suffering? Sometimes, when we respond to the grief of others, our deepest fears surface and we are reminded of our own experiences with the pain of loss. Yet, we know intuitively that in offering comfortand sympathy to another, each of us gains.

Grieving embraces the mysterious, unknowable aspects of existence and has the possibility of lending insight into oneself, one's choices, and the profound human longing to understand. Those who grieve, as well as those who have died, c! an The Art of Condolence. Copyright © by Leonard M. Zunin. Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. All rights reserved. Available now wherever books are sold.

Table of Contents

I.	Origins
1.	Historians Discover the Family	3
2.	Roots: Roman, German, Christian	16
II.	The Early Middle Ages
3.	The European Family: 500-700	45
4.	The Carolingian Age	68
5.	Anglo-Saxon England	99
	Marriage and the Family in the Year 1000	116
III.	The High Middle Ages
6.	The Family Revolution of the Eleventh Century	121
7.	The Twelfth Century: New Family Models	133
8.	Peasants Before the Black Death: 1200-1347	157
9.	The Aristocratic Lineage: Perils of Primogeniture	186
10.	Children in the High Middle Ages	196
	Marriage and the Family in the Year 1300	218
IV.	The Late Middle Ages
11.	The Impact of the Black Death	223
12.	The Late Medieval Peasant Family: 1350-1500	235
13.	A Family of the English Landed Gentry	251
14.	A Merchant's Family in Fifteenth-Century Florence	271
	Marriage and the Family After the Black Death	291
V.	The End of the Middle Ages
15.	Legacy	295
	Notes	307
	Bibliography	341
	Index	359