Mom's Sweater

by Jayde Perkin

Overview

What does it look like to live on, even when Mom is gone? In this grounded, sensitive story, a young girl looks for ways of dealing with the anger, loneliness, and jealousy that death can create. Finding comfort in her mother’s old sweater, she discovers that grief doesn’t necessarily grow smaller over time—but little by little, day by day, we can grow into grief. 

With striking, bold illustrations and evocative text, this story will be a gentle companion for young readers who are experiencing loss.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780802855442
Publisher:	Eerdmans, William B. Publishing Company
Publication date:	04/21/2020
Pages:	32
Product dimensions:	8.25(w) x 11.00(h) x (d)
Lexile:	AD490L (what's this?)
Age Range:	4 - 8 Years

About the Author

Jayde Perkin is a freelance artist whose clients have included Penguin Books and Germany's Das Magazin. She has written and drawn extensively about grief for all ages and won the East London Comics & Arts Festival x WeTransfer Award in 2018. Jayde lives in Bristol, UK. Visit Jayde's website at jaydeperkin.com or follow her on Instagram @jaydeperkin.

Editorial Reviews

02/24/2020

In the opening image of this picture book, a mother dressed in a patient gown sits on the edge of a hospital bed, hugging her young daughter. Both have gentle smiles; outside, daffodils—Mom’s favorite flower—are in bloom. But Mom isn’t coming home; there’s a funeral, and an outpouring of cards and flowers and sandwiches. While the grieving girl is surrounded by supportive people, she is “angry that my friends had moms who picked them up from school.” When she discovers her mother’s favorite red sweater among her mom’s belongings, she wears it constantly until, with help from her father, she learns that like the sweater, the grief she feels “may stay the same size. But my world will grow bigger around it.” Perkin’s firmly inked drawings, punctuated by bright colors, offer a visual consistency that serves as an anchor amid the emotional turmoil, authenticating the story’s trajectory from sadness to acceptance to loving remembrance. Ages 4–8. (Apr.)

Publishers Weekly

2020-02-09
A girl struggles to understand her grief in this British import and picture-book debut for artist Perkin.

After a visit to her mother in the hospital comes a life-changing call the next morning: “She’s gone.” There’s a funeral and many condolences. The girl finds herself unable to concentrate and feels detached from the world, her father telling her that it is grief she is experiencing. Perkin writes matter-of-factly about struggling with the loss of a parent. There’s no condescension to child readers; she respects their ability to understand, telling the story with a refreshing candor from the girl’s point of view: “Everyone would say, ‘I’m so sorry.’ But it wasn’t their fault,” the girl muses. Finding one of her mother’s sweaters, which retains her mother’s scent, the girl wears it often. Her sensitive father helps her comprehend the enormity of her feelings with the use of an apt and poignant simile, explaining that her grief is like her mother’s sweater: It stays the same, but she will “eventually grow into it.” There is a fitting plaintiveness to Perkin’s stylized figures—she draws eyes simply with everyone appearing as if they are looking down—but smiles grow as times passes and the girl and her father come to understand their loss. The two are white; the family’s grieving friends include people of color and multiracial families.

A deeply felt examination of grief. (Picture book. 4-10)

Kirkus Reviews