Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

by Brené Brown, Brené Brown (Read by)

Overview

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • When we deny our stories, they define us. When we own our stories, we get to write the ending.

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Social scientist Brené Brown has ignited a global conversation on courage, vulnerability, shame, and worthiness. Her pioneering work uncovered a profound truth: Vulnerability—the willingness to show up and be seen with no guarantee of outcome—is the only path to more love, belonging, creativity, and joy. But living a brave life is not always easy: We are, inevitably, going to stumble and fall.

It is the rise from falling that Brown takes as her subject in Rising Strong. As a grounded theory researcher, Brown has listened as a range of people—from leaders in Fortune 500 companies and the military to artists, couples in long-term relationships, teachers, and parents—shared their stories of being brave, falling, and getting back up. She asked herself, What do these people with strong and loving relationships, leaders nurturing creativity, artists pushing innovation, and clergy walking with people through faith and mystery have in common? The answer was clear: They recognize the power of emotion and they’re not afraid to lean in to discomfort.

Walking into our stories of hurt can feel dangerous. But the process of regaining our footing in the midst of struggle is where our courage is tested and our values are forged. Our stories of struggle can be big ones, like the loss of a job or the end of a relationship, or smaller ones, like a conflict with a friend or colleague. Regardless of magnitude or circumstance, the rising strong process is the same: We reckon with our emotions and get curious about what we’re feeling; we rumble with our stories until we get to a place of truth; and we live this process, every day, until it becomes a practice and creates nothing short of a revolution in our lives. Rising strong after a fall is how we cultivate wholeheartedness. It’s the process, Brown writes, that teaches us the most about who we are.

ONE OF GREATER GOOD’S FAVORITE BOOKS OF THE YEAR

“[Brené Brown’s] research and work have given us a new vocabulary, a way to talk with each other about the ideas and feelings and fears we’ve all had but haven’t quite known how to articulate. . . . Brené empowers us each to be a little more courageous.”—The Huffington Post

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780525590279
Publisher:	Penguin Random House Audio Publishing Group
Publication date:	03/06/2018
Edition description:	Unabridged
Sales rank:	1,121,711
Product dimensions:	5.10(w) x 5.90(h) x 1.20(d)

About the Author

BRENE BROWN, Ph.D., LMSW, is a research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work. She is the author of two #1 New York Times bestsellers, Daring Greatly and The Gifts of Imperfection, and author of the national bestseller I Thought It Was Just Me. She is the CEO of The Daring Way, a training and certification program for helping professionals who want to facilitate her work.

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Table of Contents

A Note on Research and Storytelling as Methodology xi

Truth and Dare: An Introduction xvii

1 The Physics of Vulnerability 3

2 Civilization Stops at the Waterline 13

3 Owning Our Stories 39

4 The Reckoning 45

5 The Rumble 77

6 Sewer Rats and Scofflaws 99

7 The Brave and Brokenhearted 131

8 Easy Mark 159

9 Composting Failure 185

10 You Got to Dance with Them That Brung You 217

11 The Revolution 253

Appendices

Notes on Trauma and Complicated Grief 269

Finding a Certified Daring Way Helping Professional 271

The Gift of Imperfection-Summary of Key Learnings 272

Daring Greatly-Summary of Key Learnings 274

A Grateful Heart 278

Notes 281

Index 290

A Reader's Guide 303

Editorial Reviews

07/20/2015
Brown (Daring Greatly) wrestles with that moment when we fall—and, as she argues, the brave person attempting to live wholeheartedly will always fall. Encouraging readers to be curious about their emotions, Brown guides them through the process of accepting vulnerability and emerging from the shadow of shame and fear. With a fresh perspective that marries research and humor, Brown offers compassion while delivering thought-provoking ideas about relationships—with others and with oneself. Her writing is down-to-earth and entertaining, and it is easy to recognize one's own self in Brown's stories, examples of which include a tension-filled almost-argument between Brown and her husband that blessedly turned into a moment of understanding, dealings with a sloppy and demeaning hotel roommate that moved Brown to self-scrutiny, and a botched work project where taking responsibility for failure created a space for respect and teamwork. This book is about owning your story and choosing how to actively engage with the world. With Brown's excellent guidance, it's easy for readers to become as invested in her story as they are in their own, and, more importantly, to move beyond preconceived stories about themselves. (Aug.)

Publishers Weekly

In a world filled with rejection letters . . . Rising Strong can help your graduate make the most out of [their] failures.”—Bustle

“[Brené Brown’s] research and work have given us a new vocabulary, a way to talk with each other about the ideas and feelings and fears we’ve all had but haven’t quite known how to articulate. . . . Brené empowers us each to be a little more courageous.”—The Huffington Post
 
“With a fresh perspective that marries research and humor, Brown offers compassion while delivering thought-provoking ideas about relationships—with others and with oneself.”—Publishers Weekly 

“It is inevitable—we will fall. We will fail. We will not know how to react or what to do. No matter how or when it happens, we will all have a choice—do we get up or not? Thankfully, Brené Brown is there with an outstretched arm to help us up.”—Simon Sinek, author of Start with Why and Leaders Eat Last

From the Publisher

Brené Brown’s latest book continues her focus on growing stronger from tough life experiences. She narrates it with a steady sense of urgency that dominates the listening, even when the themes have a lighter, more optimistic tone. But these are weighty issues, especially if you’re recovering from difficulties and, overall, they are served well by the drama in the author’s performance. Highly personal stories and Brown’s gut-wrenching honesty contribute to the intensity and work well to illustrate her step-by-step formula for rising above shame and hurt. She has a remarkably nuanced understanding of how pain makes us internalize blame, avoid personal truths, and lose our openness to life’s rewards. This is an invaluable resource that sounds as close to psychotherapy as an audio can be. T.W. © AudioFile 2015, Portland, Maine

AUGUST 2015 - AudioFile

Brené Brown’s latest book continues her focus on growing stronger from tough life experiences. She narrates it with a steady sense of urgency that dominates the listening, even when the themes have a lighter, more optimistic tone. But these are weighty issues, especially if you’re recovering from difficulties and, overall, they are served well by the drama in the author’s performance. Highly personal stories and Brown’s gut-wrenching honesty contribute to the intensity and work well to illustrate her step-by-step formula for rising above shame and hurt. She has a remarkably nuanced understanding of how pain makes us internalize blame, avoid personal truths, and lose our openness to life’s rewards. This is an invaluable resource that sounds as close to psychotherapy as an audio can be. T.W. © AudioFile 2015, Portland, Maine

AUGUST 2015 - AudioFile