Table of Contents
Foreword 7
Introduction: A guide for parents and caregivers 8
How to use this book: For parents and caregivers 10
How to use this book: A guide for children 11
Introducing Chip the monster 12
Part 1 Positivity and Me 13
Activity: All about me! 14
Activity: My least favorite things 16
Activity: My favorite things 17
How to spot positivity and negativity 19
Spreading positivity (and negativity) 21
Activity: Positivity quiz 22
Activity: What I'd like to put in the trash 24
All emotions are okay 26
Activity: Feelings wheel 27
What is a positive or negative worldview? 28
Activity: Which situations make me feel negative? 29
What is self-talk? 31
Activity: Compliments to myself 32
Part 2 Positivity Boosters 33
Activity: Positive or negative? 34
Listen to your body 36
Activity: How do you feel right now? 37
What is mindfulness? 38
Activity: Mindful coloring 39
Activity: Create a cuddle box 40
Activity: Positive steps 42
Activity: I can talk about my feelings 44
It's okay to feel negative emotions and think negative thoughts 45
Activity: Mood tracker 46
Positive affirmations 48
Activity: Breathing exercises 50
Activity: Make a poster 52
Activity: I like myself 53
Activity: Fortune teller 54
Activity: Bubble breathing 57
Remember to press pause 58
Activity: Positivity toolkit 59
Part 3 Negativity Shrinkers 60
You are not alone 61
Activity: What are my skills? 62
Activity: Room for all my emotions 63
Talking about your thoughts and feelings 65
Activity: Who can I talk to? 66
Activity: Body map 67
Activity: Expressing anger 69
Activity: Get to know your inner meanie 71
Activity: Gratitude journal 74
Don't compare yourself to others 77
Activity: My happy place 79
Activity: Journey stick 82
Activity: Get creative 83
You're doing great! 86
Activity: Positively imperfect 87
My top negativity shrinkers 89
Part 4 Looking After Yourself 90
Why it's important to relax 91
Activity: Chill-out zone 92
Activity: Water tracker 93
Loving and respecting your body 95
Activity: Yes and no 96
Healthy eating 97
Activity: Easy banana pancakes 98
Activity: Move your body 99
Positivity at home 101
Positivity scavenger hunt 102
Positivity online 104
Activity: Weekly planner 105
Part 5 Finding Positivity Every Day 106
All about positivity 107
Activity: My positive day 108
Stones of positivity 109
Take it slow 111
Activity: Random acts of kindness 113
Activity: Become an expert listener 115
Positively different 118
Let your voice be heard 119
Activity: How you can make a difference 120
Activity: Sing it out loud 122
Activity: My friends 123
Good-friend checklist 126
Activity: How are you doing? 127
Activity: Turn a negative into a positive 129
Part 6 Celebrate Yourself 131
Activity: Make an action plan 132
Activity: Make your own positive statements 133
Positively Me: golden rules 134
Activity: Help Chip the monster 135
The end 136
For parents and carers: How to help boost your child's positivity 138
Farther advice 139
Recommended reading 140