Table of Contents
About the Authors ix
Introduction: The Why and How of Women's Leadership Journey 1
Leadership and Power 2
The Why of This Book 3
The How of This Book 5
Chapter Overview 5
How to get the Most From These Pages 7
Chapter 1 Engaging Women in School Leadership 9
Gender Archetypes, Stereotypes, and Women in Leadership 10
The Gender Gap in Educational Leadership 12
Trends in Gender and Leadership 15
Practical and Prophetic Reasons to Have More Women Leaders 18
Next Steps in the Journey 31
Step in for Further Reflection 31
Chapter 2 Navigating Gender Barriers 33
What Women Want 35
What Gets in the Way 38
What Women Can Do 44
Next Steps in the Journey 48
Step in for Further Reflection 48
Chapter 3 Finding Time for the Leadership Journey 51
So Much to Do, So Little Time 52
Brain Energy and Bandwidth 55
Fueling Your Brain 56
Balancing Your Priorities 59
Focusing Your Attention 60
Next Steps in the Journey 65
Step in for Further Reflection 65
Chapter 4 Readying Yourself for Stepping Up 67
"Why Me? I'm Not Ready!" 68
The Benefits of Becoming a Leader 69
The Pedagogical Gifts of a Good Leader 71
Collaboration and Shared Leadership 73
Leadership and Views of Power 75
Personal Leadership Resources 76
Next Steps in the Journey 80
Step in for Further Reflection 80
Chapter 5 Taking the Path to Maturity 83
Stages of Adult Development 86
Reflection on People's Capacity 92
Next Steps in the Journey 93
Step in for Further Reflection 93
Individual Contribution and Collaboration Polarity 97
Chapter 6 Knowing Your Hardwired Strengths 99
How Thinking and Feeling Preferences Impact Leadership 102
How Decision-Making Preferences Impact Leadership 105
Your Decision-Making Style and Leadership 106
Next Steps in the Journey 111
Step in for Further Reflection 111
Chapter 7 Challenging Your High-Flying and Limiting Beliefs 115
Deselect Your Default 117
Embrace Your Confidence 119
Shift Your View on Vulnerability 121
Don't Get Derailed by the Impostor Syndrome 122
Stand Tall in Your Self-Worth 124
Reach Your Potential Through Growth 126
Next Steps in the Journey 128
Step in for Further Reflection 128
Chapter 8 Exploring Emotional Intelligence 131
A Definition of Emotional Intelligence 132
Emotional Self-Awareness 135
Self-Management of Emotions 138
Social Awareness of Emotions 141
Relationship Management 144
Next Steps in the Journey 148
Step in for Further Reflection 148
EQ Components for Development 150
Chapter 9 Making Yourself Heard 153
To Be or Not to Be Assertive 154
Why Men and Women Communicate Differently in the Workplace 155
Adding the Feminine Viewpoint to Education 158
Avoiding Gendered Communication Traps 160
Next Steps in the Journey 163
Step in for Further Reflection 164
Polarity Thinking® Map for Communication Effectiveness 168
Chapter 10 Finding the Courage for Tough Conversations 169
Your Capacity for Difficult Conversations 172
When to Speak Up 173
How to Speak Up 178
Next Steps in the Journey 182
Step in for Further Reflection 183
Chapter 11 Encouraging More Women to Lead 185
A More Systematic Leadership Talent Search 188
Networks and Learning Opportunities 190
Women in School Leadership Programs 193
Mentors and Coaches 194
Readiness for the Leadership Job Search 197
Next Steps in the Journey 199
Step in for Further Reflection 199
Chapter 12 Crafting Your Identity as a Female Leader 203
Realizing That it Isn't, and It Is, All About You 203
Dealing With Leadership's Inevitable Stress 205
Determining Your Leadership Impact 206
Limiting Your Leadership Goals 207
Balancing Work and Life 210
Next Steps in the Journey 211
Step in for Further Reflection 211
A Final Note 215
References and Resources 217
Index 235