Table of Contents
Power
You've Got This! Tap into your strengths 8
Slay Your Fear! 14
Tell the Truth: Saying "Yes" to saying "No" 18
Stay Intact: Hold on to your wholeness. You are enough 24
Keep Calm: You belong! Take your rightful place 28
Define Yourself: Write your own life rules 32
Community
Lift as you Climb: Support your squad 42
Find a Mentor: Learn from your heroes 48
Ask for Help (Especially when you need it most) 54
Live and Let Go: Dealing with drama, bullies, and fickle "friends" 60
Choices
Take Heart and Trust Your Gut 66
Ask for It: Own what you want 70
Don't Fit In? Pave New Ground 74
Be You, Not "Perfect" 78
Act!
Speak Truth to Adults: Know your rights and take action 86
Don't Agonize Organize: Create what you need 90
In a Rut? Get Unstuck! 94
Branch Out: Find your crew 100
Self-Care
Be Kind to Yourself 108
Listen to Your Body 114
Dealing with Illness 120
Find the Lesson: Bounce back from the dumps, failures, and other bummers 126
Shine Brightly Without Burning Out 130
Dealing with Difficult Times
Transitions: Read your way to presence and a new perspective 138
Loneliness 142
Healthy Communications 146
Communicating Boundaries 150