The Day I Die: The Untold Story of Assisted Dying in America

by Anita Hannig

Overview

"Copies of this book should be in every doctor's office in the country, to educate patients and doctors themselves!" —Diane Rehm, interviewer and narrator of the PBS documentary When My Time Comes

An intimate investigation of assisted dying in America and what it means to determine the end of our lives.

In this groundbreaking book, award-winning cultural anthropologist Anita Hannig brings us into the lives of ordinary Americans who go to extraordinary lengths to set the terms of their own death. Faced with a terminal diagnosis and unbearable suffering, they decide to seek medical assistance in dying—a legal option now available to one in five Americans.

Drawing on five years of research on the frontlines of assisted dying, Hannig unearths the uniquely personal narratives masked by a polarized national debate. Among them are Ken, an irreverent ninety-year-old blues musician who invites his family to his death, dons his best clothes, and goes out singing; Derianna, a retired nurse and midwife who treks through Oregon and Washington to guide dying patients across life's threshold; and Bruce, a scrappy activist with Parkinson's disease who fights to expand access to the law, not knowing he would soon, in an unexpected twist of fate, become eligible himself.

Lyrical and lucid, sensitive but never sentimental, The Day I Die tackles one of the most urgent social issues of our time: how to restore dignity and meaning to the dying process in the age of high-tech medicine. Meticulously researched and compassionately rendered, the book exposes the tight legal restrictions, frustrating barriers to access, and corrosive cultural stigma that can undermine someone's quest for an assisted death—and why they persist in achieving the departure they desire.

The Day I Die will transform the way we think about agency and closure in the face of death. Its colorful characters remind us what we all stand to gain when we confront the hard—and yet ultimately liberating—truth of our mortality.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781728259420
Publisher:	Sourcebooks
Publication date:	11/07/2023
Pages:	288
Sales rank:	87,256
Product dimensions:	5.40(w) x 8.20(h) x 0.90(d)

About the Author

Anita Hannig is associate professor of anthropology at Brandeis University, where she teaches classes on the cultural dimensions of medicine and death and dying. She spent five years studying how access to assisted dying is transforming the ways Americans die. In recent years, Anita has emerged as a leading voice on death literacy in America, giving interviews for the Washington Post, USA Today, and the Boston Globe. She has written for Cognoscenti, Undark Magazine, and the Seattle Times, among others.

Table of Contents

Prologue: Nothin' about the Blues 1

Introduction: A New Way to Die 21

Part I Losing Control

Chapter 1 Spinning Away 35

Chapter 2 When Hospice Isn't Enough 55

Part II Navigating Obstacles

Chapter 3 Restrictive Laws 75

Chapter 4 Invisible Death 93

Chapter 5 A Bureaucratic Maze 111

Chapter 6 Medical Gatekeepers 133

Chapter 7 The Science of Dying 155

Chapter 8 Family Matters 177

Part III Regaining Control

Chapter 9 Flying Free 195

Chapter 10 Crossing Over 215

Chapter 11 Together in Grief 235

Part IV The Way Forward

Chapter 12 New Frontiers 251

Epilogue 269

Acknowledgments 275

Reading Group Guide 279

A Conversation with the Author 283

Resources 287

Notes 289

About the Author 299

Editorial Reviews

"Anita Hannig bravely takes on a topic that many won’t touch with a ten-foot pole. Medical aid in dying might be controversial, but it is increasingly accepted worldwide and a topic we can no longer ignore." — Jessica Zitter, MD, MPH, author of Extreme Measures: Finding a Better Path to the End of Life and founder of Do No Harm Media

"Anita Hannig presents both the history of medical aid in dying in the United States and the current reality facing individuals who wish to end their suffering in compassionate and vivid prose. With all her training and hands-on experience, she brings us details of real people trying to end their lives when they realize that nothing but misery lies ahead. Copies of this book should be in every doctor’s office in the country, to educate patients and doctors themselves!" — Diane Rehm, interviewer and narrator of the PBS documentary When My Time Comes

"Of all events in a lifetime, death is the most solitary, and yet most people have no control over it. In The Day I Die, Anita Hannig investigates assisted dying. Her portrayal of people who want to have a choice at the end of their lives is calm, balanced, and devastating." — Sallie Tisdale, author of Advice for Future Corpses

"By sharing the accounts of terminally ill individuals from all walks of life, Anita Hannig provides an honest look at the vital importance of medical aid in dying. From the perspective of patients, physicians, and family members alike, the one immutable truth that resonates is that the desire to experience a good death is simply the extension of having lived a good life. In The Day I Die, Hannig helps us recognize that, in our final chapter of life, we are likely to find our collective humanity as much as our inevitable mortality." — Dan Diaz, Brittany Maynard's husband and advocate for end-of-life options

"The Day I Die is the book we need on the next major social issue of our time—a revelation." — Peter Richardson, Director, How to Die in Oregon

"The Day I Die is an informative and accessible addition to the literature of death and dying. […] Hannig’s fieldwork has yielded a book with immersive prose and a thorough look at the legal, political, cultural, and linguistic challenges involved in the act of assisted dying in America." — New York Journal of Books

From the Publisher

Not only mirrors truth, but helps us to better understand it.”

Boston Globe

Exhilarating and intelligent novel.”

New York Times

Challenges conventional story lines of another favorite American theme: capitalism and the accumulation of vast wealth…[with] intriguing insights into the hidden roles played by subservient women.”

Minneapolis Star Tribune