Why Not Me?: Choosing To Be Positive In The Face Of Adversity

by Shawn Paulsen

Overview

When life doesn't go as planned...Make new plans!

When a devastating event takes away the way of life you are accustomed to, you have two choices: Stop living or Start Planning!

In this memoir, Shawn Paulsen demonstrates how he has overcome his stumbling blocks and turned them into stepping stones on his journey through the misfortunes of life. Shawn's story inspires and motivates others to overcome. He describes how he has learned to face adversity with his chin up by taking a comedic view of his malady and life.
He has shaped his life goal around making the best out of bad situations. From a dysfunctional childhood through a disabling illness that has left him mostly blind and deaf, he never gave up. He discovered new ways to fuel the passions in his life and share them with others.

"This book opened my eyes. It made me understand how every day is more important for me, and that I shouldn't take any of them for granted. It's beautiful, honest and heart-wrenching; it made me laugh and cry. I will never look at orange duct tape the same way again."
-- Louie Anderson, Comedian and creator of Life with Louie

Many people ask, "Why you?" He now simply responds, "Why not me?" Shawn hopes to propel others to step outside of their norm and enjoy the stars or the song of a bird or the faces of their loved ones, because things change in the blink of an eye.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781943526932
Publisher:	Author Academy Elite
Publication date:	02/10/2017
Pages:	302
Product dimensions:	6.00(w) x 9.00(h) x 0.63(d)

About the Author

Shawn Paulsen has spent the better part of his life following his passion for inspiring and motivating others to overcome the obstacles and negativity in their life. A writer, coach and entertainer, he has been entertaining and motivating audiences all across the country for over 15 years. As a comedic hypnotist, Shawn has performed in some of the most prestigious clubs and venues across the country, as well as working with some of the top name comedians in the business. Shawn earned his doctorate and started a successful therapy and life coaching business where he was committed to helping others reach their full potential. Shawn is also an educator, teaching from elementary through college level classes. He is the host of his own YouTube channel Riding the Braille Trail where he vlogs his greatest triumphs.
He and his wife Cindee are blessed with two children, six grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren, who are the passion of his life.

Table of Contents

Contents

Introduction

Part 1: Why Me

1- Don't Blink
2- Bigger Is Not Always Better
3- To The Left
4- From Cancer To Syphilis
5- Blindsight
6- Speak Up

Part 2: The Old Me

7- Skating On Milk
8- I Am Iron Man
9- Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde
10- Mom Said I'd Never See 13
11- I Punched Him Sober
12- Time To Be A Man
13- Saved By An Angel

Part 3: The New Me

14- A New Family
15- And Then There Were Four
16- Cops & Robbers
17- It's All Downhill From Here
18- Make Me Laugh
19- It Wasn't Me
20- Mothers And Sons
21- Planes, Trains And Automobiles
22- Mistakes
23- Go Straight To Grandkids

Part 4: Why Not Me

24- Too Dumb To Be Afraid
25- Dogs Are The Best Medicine
26- Lost But Not Forgotten
27- The Song Of The Loon
28- Dis-Ability
29- Can I Get A Spot
30- Blind Luck
31- Mr. Heat Miser
32- Overcome With Laughter
33- Why Not Me

Editorial Reviews

"This book opened my eyes. It made me understand how every day is more important for me, and that I shouldn't take any of them for granted. It's beautiful, honest and heart-wrenching; it made me laugh and cry, I will never look at orange duct tape the same way again."
-Louie Anderson, Comedian and creator of Life with Louie

Sometimes our toughest times provide us with highlights of our lives. I moved to Utah in 2001 to take a radio job, and I didn't know a soul. It was a big risk, but without risk in life there is no reward. It turned out to be one of the biggest disasters of a life filled with them, but a highlight was meeting my friend Shawn Paulsen. Little did I know he was going through a whole mountain of problems of his own, as many of us do without mentioning them.
As a professional entertainer, it's not often that I call a club owner "friend" over business contact. Shawn was a rare exception and we became good friends that lasted past his comedy club and my radio job. He and his family are "real", and I grew to love and admire them all. Learning of Shawn's rare condition made me cry, but his unbelievable courage in the face of such a daunting challenge is inspiring beyond words. He is a true "mentsch" as the Jewish people call it. He walks tall and proud, but remains approachable and humble. I am proud to call him my friend, and would do anything and everything within my power to support anything he does. Keep slugging buddy! I know you've got more left in the tank."
-Dobie Maxwell Comedian /Author of Monkey in the Middle

"As I read 'Why not me' I found myself deeply moved; at times to tears, others to a rage of anger and still others to rolling laughter. The book truly gave me a glimpse into what it's like to live with a disability. Even greater, it gave the knowledge that a disability could bring a thirst for life and living often unfelt in "ordinary" lives. The author is giving you a glimpse, not only into is his life, but into his soul."
-Sara W

"If you've sometimes felt like the gods are conspiring against you, you need to read this book. If ever there was a reason to give up, Shawn Paulsen has experienced it. Abuse, disabilities, disease and relationship issues have all plagued him, but time after time he proved that good people will step in, miracles will occur, and even if they don't, you can face anything with hope and determination. I am better for having read his journey, and hope to complain a little less when I'm in the long line at the grocery store."
-Lisa B

"This book has given me such a new perspective on life. It teaches you that life can change in an instant and it's not about the materialistic items in our lives that define us but rather the people and experiences we live! Such a great read and recommended to all."
-Aubrey A

"I loved your book and was completely inspired by your story. Your experiences and what you are capable of doing even with your energy failure is an absolute inspiration. When you are performing, no one can tell you are blind or have hearing loss. Thank you for sharing this inspiring story."
-Taylor N

"I think you are an amazing person and have so much to offer people. I admire the way you have handled yourself throughout all of your medical problems. I admire your commitment to each other and your willingness to share in your book."
-Missy B

"Thank you for sharing your story. It made me realize that we all have a story to tell. You are inspiring in the fact that you are not resentful about your disease. Your title says it all, why not you?"
-Reader

"The book was entertaining & insightful. It takes a lot of patience to go through what you have. The path you're taking is a good thing even though it is a painful Journey. You're a great storyteller."
-Reader

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