In Women's Intuition, Dr. Reeves guides readers to remove the blocks preventing this channel of knowledge from informing and enriching their daily lives. By evoking bodybased intuition, readers can reestablish their bodymind bond and access their intuitive power for healing and insight.
In Women's Intuition, Dr. Reeves guides readers to remove the blocks preventing this channel of knowledge from informing and enriching their daily lives. By evoking bodybased intuition, readers can reestablish their bodymind bond and access their intuitive power for healing and insight.
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In Women's Intuition, Dr. Reeves guides readers to remove the blocks preventing this channel of knowledge from informing and enriching their daily lives. By evoking bodybased intuition, readers can reestablish their bodymind bond and access their intuitive power for healing and insight.
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| ISBN-13: | 9781573241564 |
|---|---|
| Publisher: | TURNER PUB CO |
| Publication date: | 06/01/1999 |
| Pages: | 252 |
| Product dimensions: | 7.00(w) x 9.19(h) x (d) |
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Women's Intuition
Unlocking the Wisdom of the Body
By Paula M. Reeves
Red Wheel/Weiser, LLC
Copyright © 1999 Paula M. ReevesAll rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-1-57324-156-4
CHAPTER 1
Reconnecting to Our Body Wisdom
In 1988, Holgar Kalweit wrote: "Only human beings have come to a point where they no longer know why they exist. They don't use their brains and they have forgotten the secret knowledge of their bodies, their senses, or their dreams. They don't use the knowledge the spirit has put into every one of them; they are not even aware of this, and so they stumble blindly on the road to nowhere...."
As these words were written, a group of ordinary women were meeting at the behest of Sharon, a mutual friend. Sharon's daughter, Lila, had prematurely delivered twin boys, both of whom were gravely ill. Sharon awakened one afternoon from a nap with the distinct impression that if she gathered together a circle of her closest female friends they would know how to heal the babies. She spoke to her daughter, asking Lila's permission to follow her inclination.
At her invitation the women met, listened to the grandmother, and decided to form a circle and let intuition be their guide. Before they parted that evening, they knew their contribution was to keep the boys' photos within a symbolic circle of healing energy. Solemnly pledging to do so, they sent for photographs, agreeing to meet again in a few days. After three weeks of meeting for several hours each week and sharing how their bodies felt as they thought about the boys, one of the women in the circle asked if she were the only one who had an intuition that the continuing deterioration of one of the twins was linked to the emotional health of the mother. Others agreed; they too had the same insight. One women said that when she first became aware of this feeling, she felt like she had a "band around my heart. I knew that something was causing Lila heartache and preventing her from being able to love both boys equally." With her permission, Lila's picture was added to the circle. On the eighth night, two of the women came in and said they had strong feelings that both boys were going to be fine. One reported she was taking a shower "when I thought of the boys and I wanted to laugh and sing." Six weeks later the pediatrician confirmed their "remarkable recovery" and the group turned their attention elsewhere.
I was part of this circle, and the experience only strengthened my conviction that women are often more far more effective and influential when they trust their intuition to guide them in situations when intellect is not enough. The twins were under the care of an excellent physician, yet the intuition of these women, myself included, led them to create a healing ritual that complemented what was being done.
Finding Our True Home
Each of us has the capacity for intuition—that sudden inexplicable insight that tells us we know something we had no idea we knew. By nature, we women are highly intuitive. By puberty we are learning how to direct our attention to the myriad of internal signals that are preparing us for menarche and childbirth. For each of us this heightened sensitivity introduces the strong true strain of intuitive wisdom that reposes within us and is expressed by our bodies as much, if not more, than by our minds. That's because intuition is a gut response—butterflies in the stomach, a twinge in the solar plexus, a sudden shiver, or a flutter of heartbeats. These are the signs that something is going on beneath the surface of things—that we are being alerted by signals from an embodied nonverbal wisdom—our intuition.
While it's true that everyone has intuition, not all of us have the same capacity to use it. There are many women who are highly intuitive and so practiced at using this function of the bodymind that they take it for granted. Others feel their intuition is a disposable gift, arriving unexpectedly and rather inexplicably, to be accepted, marveled over, and discarded when the novelty has worn thin. Others treat their intuition with suspicion, avoiding it as they would a threatening mystery. And there are those of us who seldom, if ever, recognize its presence, discounting the multiple ways we all access intuition daily as habit, lucky guesses, or even coincidence.
In actuality, intuition is a major part of all your decision making and every creative inspiration. The dictionary defines intuition as an immediate cognition; sharp insight; the act or faculty of knowing without the use of rational processes. In other words, knowing what, moments before, you didn't know you knew. Medical intuitive Mona Lisa Schulz, M.D. says, "If you have a brain and a body, if you have memories, if you sleep at night (or any other time), then by definition you have to be, you are, intuitive." When you are cooking and you creatively add an unexpected seasoning you just feel will be right, or you get up in the morning and have an inkling that you should change your plans and do so, or you follow a hunch about something, you are using your intuition.
Women have been trusting the wisdom of their bodies and listening to the insight of their dreams and intuitions for centuries, since long before recorded history. In the earliest inscribed tale of the feminine, the story of Inanna, Queen of Sumer, and her sister Eriskigel, Inanna's life is dependent upon her reception to an intense keening and wailing from the "Great Below," which she takes seriously. Inanna's intuition alerts her to respect the summons from her inner self and prepare to do the business of Soul. However, intuition is neither the gift of queens nor the folly of innocents. Intuition is the voice of embodied Soul.
Unfortunately, most of us have become so alienated from our bodies that it is difficult to access our bodies' wisdom. This is a grave handicap. For body wisdom contains the essential truths about what matters most to a woman and ultimately to the human race as a whole. Body wisdom especially amplifies the inherent sacred relationship between a woman and the deep feminine. If she doubts this, she has but to turn to the exquisitely sensitive cycles of her body that have been teaching her since puberty how intimately she is influenced by the innate intelligence of her biochemical bodymind.
This relationship is sacred because it has deep and abiding roots in the collective history of womankind. As the science of psychoneuroimmunology is beginning to demonstrate, body wisdom is transmitted through the instinctual biochemical language of tissue and bone, of movement and symptoms, through the ebb and flow of hormonal tides, neuropeptide cascades, and the flux and peaks of energy knit together by breath, by heartbeat, by touch. It is within this ongoing transmission that intuition is most active.
Unfortunately, we in industrial society have lost much of the understanding of how to tap into those signals and to read them. We lack the time and the energy needed to reflect upon the wisdom of our bodies. We have been taught to live our daily lives as if our body is a machine, designed to act, react, interact, as needed. Meanwhile, each and every cell of our body is profoundly affected by our environment, inner and outer, every moment of the day. Every dream, every physical symptom (headache, backache, irritable stomach), every mood, every addiction, is a message from our bodymind.
Ignorance or indifference toward the keen intelligence of the matter that houses soul leaves us buffeted by gale-force emotional winds stirred by our neglect. Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist, warned that when a culture loses contact with the divine, the desire to relate to the Ineffable is carried by the body as disease. The last language left to the ignored body is the physical symptom, and the final act of defiance may be addiction. Deaf to the invitation to evoke embodied consciousness, we are more likely to proceed mechanically, ignoring our images, "curing" the symptoms while dismissing our intuitive messages. Inevitably when we ignore what matters most to us that then becomes the matter with us.
This, then, is a book about claiming a conscious soulful relationship with your body, the only true home you will ever have in this lifetime. Within these pages lies help in learning to listen to and trust the deep spiritual energies that manifest as wisdom in every cell of your matter. To do this is to discover your destiny and recover your authentic voice in order to speak your truth.
I have been a therapist for many years, helping people decipher the messages from their intuition. The material in this book began to be publicly articulated years ago, as a series of lectures. Much to my surprise I found that men and women alike, in Australia, Europe, and the United States, were deeply moved by the invitation to leave the realm of logic and rationality and descend into the intuitive realm of matter. In the body workshops, tears flowed and bellies churned as person after person fell back into love with their own matter. Through movement, not words, through sensations, not statements, the metaphoric realm of the feminine came alive as a physical experience. From this and many other experiences, I began to understand deeply how much intuition is body-based, and how unless we return to the wisdom of the body, we will never be fully able to access our inner knowing.
Our Beleaguered Heritage
Unfortunately, in general women have become disconnected from this wisdom, not only because of personal traumas such as sexual and emotional abuse that may have caused us to dissociate, but as inheritors of a centuries-old fear of women's power that is expressed through her intuitive knowing.
Prior to the advent of patriarchy, from conception and incubation to the delivery of every birth, through the care and nurturance of children, the cultivation, preparation, and the blessing of food, and the gathering and use of herbs for healing and worship, to the eventual bathing and preparation of the body for burial, the experiential, embodied knowledge of women was essential, basic to the ongoing stability of the community.
Before the legislation and licensing of medicine and psychotherapy, the care of the body rested in the hands of the medicine man or woman, the soothsayer, the midwife, and the herbalist, while the care of the soul rested in the hands of the shaman and the priest. Often interchangeable, the role of healer or spiritual guide as intermediary between the known and the unknowable was both a sacred duty and a practical necessity. Performing a soul retrieval, the shaman then might work ceremonially with the physical illness that such a loss engendered. The herbalist's prescription often included a potion for the relief of physical symptoms in combination with a bundle of herbs to ritualistically protect the wearer from future distress. This sanctified relationship between human nature and all of nature was an experiential given. Astrology, divination, ritual, herbology—all were treasured resources for wisdom and guidance. Synchronistic events, dreams, spirit animals, totems, even changes in the weather were well noted, reverentially acknowledged as guides, as teachers.
Women and the valued principles of the shamanic feminine were influential cornerstones in the foundation of the art, science, religion, and law of most preindustrial cultures. The culture's sacred rituals depended upon the endurance of these cornerstones for stability. Earliest evidence of this history lay scattered in the Neolithic cave sites where female bear skulls and cave etchings leave us remnants of the artifacts prehistoric people may have chosen to represent the potency of the female spirit and the endurance of the feminine principle. The transmission of these principles was oral, the apprenticeship often not completed until midlife or later.
Informed by nature, those wise clan leaders of the past were, of necessity, steeped in an intimate knowledge of the Earth, of herbs, the mysteries of childbirth, and the ecological cycles of renewal. Drawing upon the rituals and laws of nature, they developed a profound understanding of the soulful relationship between the body and the emotional, imaginal realm of Spirit. Secure in this knowledge, they unhesitatingly related the evolution of a human life to the evolution of this planet—and beyond—to the heavens above.
As patriarchy took hold in civilization, this essential body-held wisdom began to be openly attacked. In the 1500s, untold numbers of women, labeled as witches, died because they freely offered to others the instinctual skills and intuitive knowledge that came naturally to them. The strength and commitment from this bond of sisterhood confused and threatened those who wished to see it eradicated. For the crime of an infinite love for nature, ordinary caring women were treated with utter contempt. Mercilessly they were burned at the stake, drowned slowly, horribly tortured, and mutilated in the cultural attempt to frighten the healing energies of the feminine, with its repository knowledge of ritual and the body, into extinction. Brutal though the method, invariably these attempts were futile. This energy can't be extinguished. It may retreat and go underground, yet it waits, to resurface over and again.
Those who have never lost touch with this energy offer powerful examples of intuitive knowing. I was once a member of a party of three men and four women who were making our way deep into the out-back of Australia. The Pitjantjatjara tribe that we were staying with communicate telepathically—a kind of outback Internet. The messages are felt rather than thought. At the end of my stay I became quite ill. In spite of the fact that all the men of the tribe were far away on walk-about, the shaman "knew" a European woman was ill and in need of healing. He appeared at the flying doctor station shortly after I arrived in a Land Rover. Since he was on foot, that meant he would have had to anticipate my destination and leave before we had even decided to break camp.
The opportunity to discuss this incident with our guide, Australian tracker and anthropologist Diana James, never presented itself. However, in his book, Tracks in the Wilderness of Dreaming, Robert Bosnak describes his experience with the communication style of the Pitjatjanjara: "This is the first time I have actually heard of a systemic, collective, physical grammar of extrasensory perception." Dr. Bosnak is referring to the ways in which the Pitjatjanjara interpret their perceptions depending upon which part of the body is aroused, is twitching or itching, or tingling.
Listening to Our Body's Signals
From this and much other evidence, I am convinced that intuition functions through our often unconscious picking up of not only our own body sensations, but other people's sensations as well. These usually unrecognized sensations are as influential in determining how we feel about ourselves and other people and the choices we make as those we are aware of. One way or another we always respond to our gut feelings, making adjustments for what we assume they mean.
Try it yourself. The next time you are with someone and you become aware of a physical sensation that appears out of nowhere, check and see if you are sensing something going on in the person you are with. I remember a client who came to me because he had been down-sized in a company merger and felt depressed at his inability to find another job. He reported that he'd had several promising interviews, but when the suggestion was made that he was overqualified, he invariably lost his temper and the job. He wanted to solve the problem of his defensive response. During the second interview I begin to have distinct pain in the area of my heart. When I turned part of my attention toward my body, I realized my heart felt fine, I didn't have indigestion, or cramps. I asked my client, who said he felt fine also. The next week I had the same experience, so I told him and asked if any of the metaphors of heartache, such as "heavy heart", would describe his experience, but he said no. I only saw him once, briefly, after that. His temper was in check and he was still unemployed. Several years later I heard from his former employer that he had died "of a heart attack. His heart was never in his unemployment, it was more than he could take." If I'd been a Pitjatjanjara I might have said something like, "That fella, he heart just don't take it, this doin' nothing all the day, he break."
Sometimes the messages are more global—less specifically personal and more about a culture or a community or the underlying attitude of the group you're with. During that same visit to Australia I unexpectedly met a representative of their collective unconscious. Offered a painting by a Pitjatjanjara artist of Manu-Manu, a toothy underground member of the sisterhood of the repressed feminine, I declined. As our group walked away from this encounter, our demeanor shifted subtly. I later remembered that we made small joking references to the "potency" this mythological Aboriginal figure represented. We used our humor to shake the pervasive feeling that we had misstepped some-how—brushing aside a principle foreign to us but significant to our hosts. That night I was taught a lesson about the humility of acceptance. Within twenty-four hours Manu-Manu visited me in a series of dreams, each highlighting a specifically moving experience of the trip. At the end of each dream she said, "Now pack and go home!!" I lingered, trying to figure this mystery out, and fell violently ill. I was fortunate to get out, scathed but intact. One of the cardinal principles of embodied intuition is humility—the willingness to listen to, quietly observe, and learn from body wisdom even when the intellect can't figure things out.
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Table of Contents
Contents
Foreword by Marion Woodman
Introduction
Chapter One Reconnecting to Our Body Wisdom
Chapter Two Finding a Map to the BodyMind
Chapter Three Spontaneous Contemplative Movement
Chapter Four Soul Talk: Learning the Language of Spontaneous
Contemplative Movement
Chapter Five Tenuous Beginnings: Soul's First Relationship with Matter
Chapter Six The Self-Betrayal in Disowning Our Mother
Chapter Seven Meeting the Loathly Lady: Coming to Peace with Our Female
Bodies
Chapter Eight Trusting Intuition to Lead Us
Chapter Nine Rediscovering Your Intuitive Capacity
Chapter Ten Embodied Relationship: Intuition's Role in the Healing of
Humankind
Afterword by Belleruth Naparstek
Acknowledgments
Music Appendix
Bibliography
Index