Work Won't Love You Back: How Devotion to Our Jobs Keeps Us Exploited, Exhausted, and Alone

by Sarah Jaffe Narrated by Sarah Jaffe

Overview

A deeply-reported examination of why "doing what you love" is a recipe for exploitation, creating a new tyranny of work in which we cheerily acquiesce to doing jobs that take over our lives.

You're told that if you "do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life." Whether it's working for "exposure" and "experience," or enduring poor treatment in the name of "being part of the family," all employees are pushed to make sacrifices for the privilege of being able to do what we love.

In Work Won't Love You Back, Sarah Jaffe, a preeminent voice on labor, inequality, and social movements, examines this "labor of love" myth-the idea that certain work is not really work, and therefore should be done out of passion instead of pay. Told through the lives and experiences of workers in various industries-from the unpaid intern, to the overworked teacher, to the nonprofit worker and even the professional athlete-Jaffe reveals how all of us have been tricked into buying into a new tyranny of work.

As Jaffe argues, understanding the trap of the labor of love will empower us to work less and demand what our work is worth. And once freed from those binds, we can finally figure out what actually gives us joy, pleasure, and satisfaction.

Editorial Reviews

FEBRUARY 2021 - AudioFile

An articulate journalist and cultural observer provides a historically grounded analysis of today’s work and its costs to the human spirit. Jaffe’s exhaustive research, expressed in crisp and lucid sentences, is served well by her high-quality narration. With her amiable vocal clarity and diction, she sounds assertive and confident. She has a beef with the way demeaning and limiting work roles are glamorized by corporate America and the media, especially jobs assigned mainly to women or immigrants. Among her many keen insights, she says capitalistic, often caste-based, work models exploit people even as they are encouraged to spend more, thus necessitating more hours of such work. Less a guide than fuel for broadening one’s sensibilities, this is essential listening for culture warriors who have progressive political values. T.W. © AudioFile 2021, Portland, Maine

Publishers Weekly

11/09/2020

The notion that people should love what they do leaves workers dissatisfied and vulnerable to exploitation, according to this alarming study of modern-day employment trends. Devoting each chapter to a different job, journalist Jaffe (Necessary Trouble) provides historical context and speaks to professionals about their pay, job security, and work-life balance. She examines neoliberal economic policies that led to manufacturing layoffs in the 1970s, tracks a Long Island woman’s shift from customer service to labor activism after she lost her job of 29 years at Toys R Us, and discusses how “the internship... naturalizes lousy—and gendered—working conditions.” Through the lens of a Caribbean nanny’s experiences working in New York City, Jaffe explores the racial history of domestic work, contending that practices begun during the Reconstruction era inform people’s lives and job prospects today. Jaffe is an expert researcher and a witty narrator, but some of her history lessons seem needlessly in-depth (a chapter on adjunct professors chronicles the evolution of the university from 11th-century Italy to today), and she offers few practical solutions. Still, this is a noteworthy and persuasive call for returning to a more pragmatic view of work. Agent: Lydia Wills, Lydia Wills LLC (Jan.)

From the Publisher

Illuminating and inspiring…Work Won’t Love You Back is ultimately an optimistic book. Jaffe is clear-eyed about all the ways employers exploit workers’ goodwill, but because she has spent so much time reporting on labor actions across the world, she has also seen how workers use love to their advantage in organizing.”—The New Republic

“An extremely timely analysis of how we arrived at these brutal inequalities and of some of the ways in which a deliberately atomised workforce is beginning to organise to challenge them.”—The Guardian

“The book is also both structurally ambitious, combining essays on very specific industries such as domestic work, teaching, retail, nonprofits, art, academic, tech, sports, and of particular note, interns as it is a narrative feat…The most lucid moments in Jaffe’s writing come in the form of her blunt redefinitions of commonplace ideas. There are several of these brilliant sentences throughout the pages: ‘The labor of love, of short, is a con’; ‘Charity is a relationship of power’; and ‘programming, a field currently dominated by young men, was invented by a woman,’ to name a few.”—The Progressive

“Jaffe and the workers she interviews help us make sense of the messy tangle of emotions so many of us feel about our professional lives; when the lines are blurred between work and play, as Jaffe so astutely explains and historicizes for us, they are simply the messy tangle of emotions about our lives, full stop. The final chapter of Work Won’t Love You Back is at once a brilliant contribution to the growing canon of anti-work political theory and a moving ode to human connection.”—The Baffler

“The prose is crisp and compulsively readable… a deeply engaging work.”
 —Indypendent

“An important, timely reminder of the meaning of work.”—Los Angeles Review of Books

“By pulling apart the myth that work is love, Jaffe shows us that we can reimagine futures built on care, rather than exploitation.”—Naomi Klein, author of On Fire: The Burning Case for a Green New Deal

"Jaffe’s committed, on-the-ground engagement, historical range, and ferocious gathering of revolutionary thought combines to create something genuine and profound. . . . This book is a gift to its reader, and to a possible future."—Jordy Rosenberg, author of Confessions of the Fox

“Marvelously lucid, thoroughly readable, and wonderfully engaging.”—Kathi Weeks, author of The Problem with Work: Feminism, Marxism, Antiwork Politics, and Postwork Imaginaries

“Sarah Jaffe’s years as a labor reporter have let her see frontlines where others have failed to look. A book of rare importance.”—Raj Patel, author of Stuffed and Starved: The Hidden Battle for the World Food System

“A multiplex in still life; a stunning critique of capitalism, a collective conversation on the meaning of life and work, and a discerning contribution to the demands of the future society everyone deserves.”—Jane McAlevey, author of A Collective Bargain: Unions, Organizing, and the Fight for Democracy

"A much-needed intervention into a bad relation: our employment. Neoliberalism is collapsing, and you’ll find no better guide to help sift through the wreckage than this book."—Greg Grandin, C. Vann Woodward Professor of History, Yale University

“A dazzling takedown of the myth of working for love, and a call to arms for workers to invest their love and solidarity not in their jobs but in each other.”—Molly Crabapple, artist and author of Drawing Blood and coauthor of Brothers of the Gun

“An indispensable addition to labor journalism, labor history, and much more broadly, our understanding of what resistance looks like—and could look like—in these difficult times.”—Dave Zirin, author of A People’s History of Sports in the United States

“Sassy and big-hearted, learned and astute. …A stunning achievement."—Eileen Boris, Hull Professor of Feminist Studies, University of California, Santa Barbara

“Work Won't Love You Back has caused me to rethink my entire relationship to how I work and live. Read it and it will change you too.”—David Dayen, author of Chain of Title and Monopolized

“It reports in depth about the ways our work and life Venn diagrams have been manipulated into something more like a single circle, and offers clues as to how we might change that. It could not be more timely.”—The Progressive Populist

Library Journal

★ 02/01/2021

In this latest work, journalist Jaffe (Necessary Trouble) offers a searing indictment of the way employers leverage the language of love to undermine workers' ability to organize for better working conditions. Focusing on the carework and creative sectors broadly construed, Jaffe explores how, over the last half century, workers have fought for more authenticity in the workplace only to be faced with "demands to love their jobs," often at the expense of nonwork life. Each of the book's ten thematic chapters focuses on a specific type of care or creative work—such as childcare, customer service, teaching, professional sports, video game development—through the lives of individual workers, often those who have politicized their experiences and organized for change. The first five chapters focus on domestic labor and carework: the unpaid and underpaid jobs that "make all other work possible." The second half of the book considers how getting paid to "do what you love" in creative and knowledge sectors is often a recipe for exploitation. VERDICT As many of us rethink the power dynamics that shape our jobs and workplaces during the COVID-19 pandemic, Jaffe's passionate call to reimagine our relationships with work and one another, and imagine new possibilities, is indispensable reading.—Anna J. Clutterbuck-Cook, Massachusetts Historical Soc., Boston

FEBRUARY 2021 - AudioFile

An articulate journalist and cultural observer provides a historically grounded analysis of today’s work and its costs to the human spirit. Jaffe’s exhaustive research, expressed in crisp and lucid sentences, is served well by her high-quality narration. With her amiable vocal clarity and diction, she sounds assertive and confident. She has a beef with the way demeaning and limiting work roles are glamorized by corporate America and the media, especially jobs assigned mainly to women or immigrants. Among her many keen insights, she says capitalistic, often caste-based, work models exploit people even as they are encouraged to spend more, thus necessitating more hours of such work. Less a guide than fuel for broadening one’s sensibilities, this is essential listening for culture warriors who have progressive political values. T.W. © AudioFile 2021, Portland, Maine

Kirkus Reviews

2020-10-27
A welcome cri de coeur against the soulless machinery of late capitalism.

While Jaffe admits that her freelance employment often involves financial scrambling—“I don’t have an employer that pays for my health insurance, and forget about retirement benefits. Vacation? What’s that?”—she enjoys more freedom than many Americans, even if she begins her argument with an extended refutation of the notion that if you do what you love, “you’ll never work a day in your life,” a hollow mantra that substitutes for the reality that most of us work longer and harder than ever before for less money. The author attacks the fetishization of work brought to the world courtesy of neoliberalism, “a set of choices made by the winning side in a series of struggles”—not to mention the economic doctrine born of the fascist coup that overthrew the socialist government of Chile’s duly elected president, Salvador Allende, in 1973. As Jaffe astutely points out, the subsequent Thatcherism and Reaganism were just Pinochet with a somewhat friendlier face. Neoliberalism also assumes, as did earlier brands of capitalism, that women’s work is less valuable than men’s, a notion that still prevails. It also gives primacy to the unpaid internship as a means of securing free labor. “The internship advanced alongside other forms of contingent work,” writes the author, “and alongside the idea that trading in security for enjoyable work was a deal worth making.” Even highly desirable jobs such as a tenured professorship have become precarious. In a nice turn of phrase, Jaffe writes that even as the vaunted “knowledge economy” came into being, “the labor of knowledge workers was being devalued and deskilled.” The book is long on description and short on solution, but Jaffe does suggest, soundly, that as the current economy cracks along its fissures, it affords room to imagine something better.

Working people of all stripes have much to learn from this book.

Product Details

BN ID:	2940177948966
Publisher:	Hachette Audio
Publication date:	01/26/2021
Edition description:	Unabridged
Sales rank:	716,571

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