Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

by Lois Tschetter Hjelmstad
Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

Abidance: A Memoir of Love and Inevitability

by Lois Tschetter Hjelmstad

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Overview

It is the precise moment in which we concede our transience that life and love become most cherished. Lois and Les had been married 64 years, still crazy-in-love, when they found themselves in a sudden transition from the category of active-old to old-old. This remarkable story of their next five years describes their ongoing effort to maintain their lifelong egalitarian love affair as they cope with health changes. Hjelmstad, in her lyrical prose and poetry, gives us a rare - sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, but always realistic--view of life from the parallel universe of the old-old. This is a story we rarely hear. It is a book for all of us, and a must for health care professionals with older clients.

Product Details

BN ID: 2940162978688
Publisher: Mulberry Hill Press
Publication date: 04/28/2020
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
File size: 940 KB

About the Author

In 1990 I planned to continue teaching piano to children as long as I could stand in my tennis shoes. But finding three primary cancers in my left breast shocked me to the toes of those shoes. The night before my first mastectomy, I wept as I wrote the poem, "Goodbye, Beloved Breast." Other poems followed. My oncologist said, "Do something with these."

So I added journal entries and reflections and wrote a book, Fine Black Lines: Reflections on Facing Cancer, Fear and Loneliness (1993, 2003). It was a bit out of character that I agreed to appear nude from the waist up on the cover of the October 1993 issue of Colorado Woman News. It is a bit unusual that my husband, Les, and I traveled over 400,000 miles mostly by car) while I spoke more than 550 times in all 50 United States, England, and Canada.

In 2001, Rosie Magazine (formerly McCall's) featured me and I appeared on the Rosie O'Donnell Show.

In 2002 I wrote The Last Violet: Mourning My Mother. For our 50th wedding anniversary I promised to write a book for Les. It took 11 years, but This Path We Share: Reflecting on 60 Years of Marriage came out in April 2010.

We live in Englewood, Colorado, and have four children, fourteen grandchildren, and eight great grandchildren.
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